Tina Payne Bryson

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848 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Mar 2020 last heard May 2020

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I I mean, I did come across mine at one point and I was horrified.
And I thought, thank God I'm horrified, right?
Like, so as parents, when we feel those pangs of regret or guilt because we see things in new ways.
That means we're growing and developing and changing and we're starting to see our kids in clearer ways.
And that is a really good positive thing.
So I guess I wanna say we should feel those feelings because it means we're we're moving in an evolving way.
So I think that's key.
And, you know, one other thing I wanna say too before I dive into the four S's.
is that I'm huge on
Honoring individual differences.
And that's I think one of the hugest mistakes we make when it comes to how we do things in schools, how things are done in mental health offices.
how things are done in general regarding kids, um and adults too, but particularly kids.
you will notice that um very rarely do Dan and I have a very specific formula or a here's a step one, two, three kind of thing because every kid is different, every parent is different, every relationship and circumstance and context is different.
And the thing about the four S's and what I'm about to tell you regarding this idea of showing up
is universal and no matter what your kid is like and no matter what you are like, this is aim if you are a mammal, this is what you need in order to
Thrive.
Um, so safe is really about protecting your children from harm.
But the second part's a little bit harder.
Not being the source of your child's fear.
Or danger.
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