Tom Pelphrey

Oh my God.

She's like the total opposite of me in every way.

Well, I'll tell you, I never before in life understood what it actually meant to have a partner.

What a powerful thing.

And the more I receive from her, the more I see that she's sort of gone out of her way to either understand me or love me or both.

The only response, and it's quite a naturally occurring response, is to want to reciprocate, to want to give it back.

Like, how can I be better?

Where can I understand you better and show up a little better?

And you have that experience.

This is wild.

No, it's a really powerful thing.

When I was first around her, seeing how much she believed in herself and was just fully in her own body, in her own way, confident in what she was doing.

There was times I was literally like, are you allowed to do that?

I'm like tearing myself apart and I'm questioning myself and doubting myself.

And she's just like, this is who I am.

This is how I do things.

And I have no problem with that.

And I know what I am and I know what I'm not.

And I have no problem with that either.

That was wild, you know, especially in the beginning of coming from a place of trying to heal this sense of like, how do I be all things to all people?