Tom Pelphrey

I've gotten over that a lot more recently.

A hundred percent.

But I also think that over time we've learned that she does have insecurities in other places and where I might be strong and secure.

And that's kind of amazing too, where you realize like, okay,

We're actually kind of balanced here, even though it just shows up in different ways.

So where I'm strong, I can help you.

And where you're strong, you can help me.

It's wild.

By the time we met, I was 39 years old.

I was almost 40 years old to go that long without really understanding what partnership could mean.

Yes.

You know, I'm grateful.

Where you fill in each other's gaps and you make each other better.

Yeah.

And as much as you've known who you are, how much do you feel like since the really knowing who you are that you've also changed?

Yeah, I've changed a ton.

That's beautiful, though.

Yeah.

I feel like that's the real knowing who you are.

When you know who you are on a deep enough level that you're allowing yourself to change versus...