Tony Robbins

Because usually you pick someone who you feel is just like you or like how you want to be when you're in chemistry.

But then you discover they aren't exactly like you because we're different species.

And so you have to learn how to communicate and how to connect.

If you make it through that stage, which is usually for most people, they don't get to that stage or leave that stage till mid 40s or 50s, most people, because they have to live enough life.

They have to go through these tests, these ups and downs.

And sometimes there are things in the middle like,

Somebody dies, or a family member dies, or you lose your job, or COVID comes.

Real testing periods.

If at those times you turn on each other, it's gonna end.

Now, most people leave the romance.

My needs aren't met, they leave within those three to five years, or they get married and leave.

Most people then, if they meet up there, they leave the next one, because it's the toughest season.

It's the summer season.

If you make it through it, the transition is life's no longer about me, it's about we.

where all of a sudden it isn't you just thinking about your needs, whether they're being met or not, or your children.

It's like, this is what we're here for.

We're here for a high purpose together.

And now you enter a season we would call fall, where fall things flow.

It's just, it's a different level of love.

It's a love that's...