Tony Robbins

Giving them everything lights you up.

Then after a while, people are like, I'm not getting the same.

They start measuring.

It becomes a transaction.

So if you get through that first season, the way you get through that first season is you start to have a reality check that, hey, this isn't just about me feeling good.

This is about something larger that we're creating together.

If you do that, you'll make it to summer.

Springtime's easy.

Summer is a little more testy.

Summer is now you've got two kids, two and three years old, and you're not sleeping at night anymore.

I don't know what the hell you're doing.

I'm up all night or I'm up all night.

And it's like, oh, we got the podcast to do.

And like, oh my God, the finances and the person to show up here.

And then there's all these other things that enter your relationship where you start to see, oh my God, we have different needs in different ways.

And she's going to relate to your children at two and three different than you are as a man.

That's the nature of things.

And she may not understand that at times or vice versa, right?

So during that time, it becomes an exploration of, hey, I need to actually understand who I love here and begin to appreciate the differences instead of being frustrated by the differences.

To know those differences have a higher purpose in our evolution together.