Tony Robbins

There was never any external certainty.

You've had rented certainty.

You've convinced yourself hypnotically that you're certain because you had a job and you had this.

None of this, you walk across the street and get hit by a bus, right?

There's so much that can happen.

So we...

We hate uncertainty so much and we want it so strongly, but if we link it to our job or to an income or to a person responding the way we want to, then you're gonna live a very fearful life.

If you train yourself to feel that internal certainty, which is what you did, and anticipate as much as possible and you know, no matter what, I'll find the way, that is a different identity.

You've gone to a level of not just how to deal with things, but the identity is, I'm the guy that will find the way for my kids and for my family.

Right?

And that is freedom.

No one escapes massive, massive stress.

You either use stress or stress uses you.

Yes.

And the way you use stress is, you know, the whole phrase they'd say, you know, when you're going through hell, keep going.

Yeah.

If you keep going, three things happen.

Number one, you discover how strong you really are.

It's the only way you're going to find it is to push through it.

And then each time you do it, by the way, you get stronger and stronger.