Tony Robbins

And oftentimes I remember I was with a gentleman, a very famous gentleman decades ago.

He was in his 90s and he died.

His wife died two days later.

And I've seen that so many times.

You don't want to be here anymore without them.

You want to reunite in whatever we think the next level of this experience of life is, the next dimension of it.

So I hope it'd be helpful to your listeners and for yourselves to think about

Each season has its own unique challenges.

But the secret is to go from focused on self and what I mean by needs to focus on we instead of the.

And it's going from do I get my needs met and control to contribution.

It's from focus on self to focus on spirit.

You know, those are the things that cause us to evolve as human beings.

Seven years.

Two to three times a year, I'm holding her hand in every one of these surgeries.

I mean, it was brutal.

I think it's also remembering that there's another way.

In my first marriage, three of my kids were adopted, adopted into my life.

There was no difference between them and my blood child in terms of my love for them whatsoever.

And so that still becomes another option.

But maybe you can share the miracle of what happened for us.