Tony Robbins

She had extreme motion sickness, which I didn't know.

And then next thing you know, I'm Mr. Motion.

She's on a plane, a train, a helicopter every day, and she was throwing up on the way up, on the way down.

We went through nine years of that, taking her to every doctor, every healer, everything, and finally got healed.

But that was probably the most stressful part of our life.

Because I was feeling like, is God making me, I'm going to pick my mission or pick me with my wife?

I want to be with her.

And she wanted, thank God, wanted to be with me.

She was incredibly troubled in those times.

I also think in a relationship, oftentimes you're attracted to someone because they have qualities that you're attracted to, you think are different than you.

But they're actually part of you.

You've just disidentified with them because early in your life, you're shaped by whoever's love you want most.

So your brand new baby, you're open to anything, right?

But then you learn I gotta be a certain way to be loved.

I have to be quiet or I have to be successful or I have to never give up.

And so whoever's the greatest source of love, meaning I'm sure you love both your parents, but which one of your parents did you crave the love of most?

Abby?

That's right.

But are those a big part of you still today?

Do you still strive in those areas?