Tony Robbins

Yeah, because it created your model of the world.

And for you with your dad, who did you have to be for your dad?

Okay.

What else did you have to be?

Just off the top of your head, try not to filter and just like first gut reaction.

I had to be strong.

I had to be

Yes.

And so look, two people have to be the best come together.

And by the way, do you still have those drives?

The answer's yes, right?

So as you evolve though, what starts to happen in a relationship is,

You both have qualities in each other that are different.

So like, let's say, for example, I'm making up, it's not the two of you.

Let's say somebody is really, the powers, they step in and they take charge and they make shit happen.

And the other partner goes, wow, that's inspiring to see them do that.

Like take over a room, make it happen, right?

Why do they like that?

That part exists in them, but it's disidentified with because it wasn't in alignment with the model of the world that their parents wanted them to be.

But you unconsciously move towards it.