Vanessa Marin

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5,222 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 5d ago

Vanessa Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Pillow Talks · E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years) · 3 Sep 2026 podcast

Just taking a minute to leave a quick review or a rating, that also really, really helps support the podcast. voice-verified

So thank you in advance for doing that. voice-verified

Okay, so we're gonna go over seven super specific things that you can do. voice-verified

And then at the end, we actually turned this question over to our audience and we asked them, like, what are the specific things? voice-verified

Like they could be little things, big things, but what uh what is it that your partner does that turns you on? voice-verified

Whether it's it turns you on like a little bit, it helps or it like really gets you going. voice-verified

So we have voice-verified

Probably like 20 different responses that we pulled from there as well. voice-verified

So tons of tons of ideas in this episode for you. voice-verified

So I want to start with number one: clear blocks to desire first. voice-verified

This is one of the biggest mistakes as a sex therapist that I see couples making. voice-verified

We think about desire, we think about turning our partner on, and we just want to go all voice-verified

Systems go. voice-verified

Like, give me the secret cheat code, the one specific move, the one phrase that I could say to my partner that's just instantly gonna get them going. voice-verified

And desire does work that way for some people. voice-verified

But for a lot of people, there actually are a lot of blocks that we have in our way to feeling desire. voice-verified

And we need to be able to remove those blocks first before we can turn desire on. voice-verified

Like you can try to get the desire revving, but it's like there's all these blocks in the way. voice-verified

I mean, I I'm literally thinking about like a car driving and imagine there's a bunch of voice-verified

uh like cones in the road or those blockades and you're like you could hit the gas as hard as you want but you're gonna smash right into those blockades. voice-verified

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