Vanessa Marin
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5,222 appearances
11 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 5d ago
Vanessa Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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recordings per month · last 12 monthsRecordings per month over the last 12 months — 11 in all, peaking in Sep 2026 with 4.
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We gotta clear the blockades out so then you can drive right through
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So the question to ask your partner here is what is it that gets in the way of you feeling desire?
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And what I like about that question is it takes the blame away.
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It's not what's wrong with you.
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How can you
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Exactly.
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Like if you ask it that way, why don't you feel desired what can I do to turn you on more?
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Why don't you feel turned on more often?
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Your partner's instantly gonna go into defensive mode.
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But if you ask them what gets in the way of your desire, that like just with the question itself, you're putting like placing the issue outside of them.
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It's like there's nothing wrong with you.
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There's just this other crap that's in your way.
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And it also positions the two of you to be teammates more.
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Because if it's just an issue of, hey, your desire isn't high enough, then it feels like you have to go away and fix it.
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Versus if you ask it as like, and you could even ask it as what gets in the way of us feeling desire more often?
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What gets in the way of us being intimate more often?
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That makes you feel like teammates.
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So ask that question to your partner.
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partner and you're most likely gonna hear things like
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My mental load, especially for women.
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