Vanessa Marin

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5,222 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 5d ago

Vanessa Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Recordings per month over the last 12 months — 11 in all, peaking in Sep 2026 with 4.

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Pillow Talks · E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years) · 3 Sep 2026 podcast

If you haven't talked about mental load, we've got a couple podcast episodes about it. voice-verified

It is extremely important. voice-verified

It might be things like not having like not feeling like we have enough privacy with the kids around. voice-verified

It might be feeling like we haven't really had any quality time. voice-verified

Like I'm feeling, you know, it's it's hard to feel connected when life is so busy and we like barely even have the chance to have a conversation with each other. voice-verified

But oftentimes these things are practical things that the two of you can work together to, okay, you've got a to-do list a mile long. voice-verified

How can I help you clear that out? voice-verified

Or let's take a bigger picture look at it. voice-verified

Are we balancing chores and responsibilities and mental load in a fair way in our relationship? voice-verified

Do we want to voice-verified

Like do we have resources to help come take some of these things off of our plates or maybe we let go of certain things. voice-verified

So it's not it's not always that it's easy. voice-verified

Like something like mental load, that's gonna take some time for the two of you to to talk about, to dismantle, to figure out like a real plan for. voice-verified

But some things can be easy and straightforward like voice-verified

Why don't we put a friggin' lock on our door so we can rest a little bit easier that the kids aren't gonna barge in? voice-verified

Um, why don't we schedule a date night because we haven't gone out together in a while. voice-verified

So that is the first step, clearing those blockages to desire first. voice-verified

Number two is understanding your partner's desire type. voice-verified

This is such a mind-blowing thing about relationships is we want our partner to feel more desire. voice-verified

We get frustrated that we're not having sex more often, but we don't understand how their desire actually works. voice-verified

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