Vanessa Marin

So the legs of it are called the crura.

And around the edge of the bottom of the legs, that's where the G-spot area is.

So when you're stimulating the G-spot from inside the vagina, you're stimulating the clitoris.

It's still the clitoris.

You're just going through the walls of tissue and muscle in the vagina.

So it's still the clitoris.

Yeah.

With hands and mouths tend to be way more successful at helping her reach orgasm.

So you're going to be a lot more successful that way.

But that doesn't mean that intercourse can't be enjoyable, can't be intimate.

And you can also add clitoral stimulation.

You use your hand.

She uses her own hand.

You could use a toy.

But you have to make sure there's some sort of clitoral stimulation happening.

So I tell men, imagine you have to think of the clitoris as the penis.

And imagine like if you're having sex, but you're getting no stimulation of your penis, you're not going to enjoy it, right?

So we need to treat the clitoris in the exact same way because it's the same tissues.

It's the same organ, the same purpose there.

We need to make sure the clitoris is always invited to the party.