Vanessa Marin

So what I realized in talking to women is, sure, flowers are nice.

Planning a date night, those things are nice.

But really what women are looking for is we just want to know that you're interested in us.

Exactly.

We just want to know that you're interested in us and getting to know us and who we are and what our experience is like.

You know, so many women say, like, it feels like all day my husband just ignores me.

And then as soon as he wants sex, you know, then he's all over me.

But I'm like...

hey, what about the rest of the day?

We've, you know, you haven't shown any sort of interest in me whatsoever.

So just show some interest in her, like ask her about her day and actually pay attention to her answer or ask her a more interesting question than how was your day?

You know, hey, what's something you've been thinking about lately?

Just be nice to her, give her a compliment.

And again, it doesn't have to be complicated.

Like you look really beautiful today.

Your eyes are just sparkling today.

Like, man, you look so good.

Touch her.

This is one of the most interesting things that we've heard about from women.

Women want more touch throughout the day.