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Vince Hurley

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The secret life of a hostage negotiator

And when you say he was fine, do you mean he surrendered to police?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

What about attending someone who is on the ledge, so to speak, about to take some awful step to end their own lives?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

The previous case you mentioned, you tried to get the man in question to talk about what was bothering him.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

Would you ask that of someone on the point of taking their own life?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

So does this mean you stand right back and you don't use coercive language?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

So when you say it is a good idea to ask that person what's bothering them,

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

then that, I suppose, implies that whatever crisis is going through that person's head, it doesn't get redoubled by talking about it.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

It gets alleviated.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

It dissipates.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

And what happened to this young woman in question you're speaking of?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

I don't mean by that.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

I just mean that fear of...

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

Her taking that step and you standing there to see this awful thing.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

So when she asked her name...

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

Did you then put that argument to her, life was worthwhile, or were you just standing and waiting for her to say something to you?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

It sounds like she's told you about her family back in Germany.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

She's told you this, she's told you that.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

And do you get a sense that...

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

whatever the kind of thing that had been expanding within her was now starting to relax and contract?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

And when you reminded her she had family back home, who, of course, would have been devastated...