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Vince Hurley

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
151 total appearances

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The secret life of a hostage negotiator

What about situations when the person you're trying to connect with is not really there, either due to some mental illness, psychotic episode or to some kind of substance abuse?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

Were you brought in to deal with those kinds of situations?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

And if so, how do you deal with that situation?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

And so how do you then form some kind of bond of commonality with someone who's not in their right mind?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

A loud hailer or something like that.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

A loud hailer.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

Oh, God, that's so subtle.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

That's fascinating.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

So you don't say you're fantasising, this isn't real.

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The secret life of a hostage negotiator

No, no.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

But you also don't go, yes, he is the devil, but you've got to, I don't know, you've got to bust a catch or something.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

So you don't either fully reject or fully enter into his mind.

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The secret life of a hostage negotiator

line of thinking.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

Well, it's weakness in the argument, like you say.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

So what you're saying is this person in question in these situations, and this specific one as well, with their own kind of distorted way of thinking, there is a causal chain, like this is true, therefore this must be true, therefore I must do this.

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The secret life of a hostage negotiator

And you're looking for something in that chain of thought that's weak in his mind.

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The secret life of a hostage negotiator

How are you doing that in this incredibly dangerous and fraught situation?

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

You know, that's the kind of thing, like, if I'm watching that on TV, I might go, oh, you know, I might be able to go.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

Yes, maybe you can try that approach, but you're right in the middle of this and you're doing that thing that is in the police dramas, on the street, on the line, doing all that.

Conversations
The secret life of a hostage negotiator

How are you keeping your presence of mind in that situation?