Vinson Cunningham
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88 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2025
last heard May 2025
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And then I get to know them and they're okay, but I'm still like, hmm, that's the closest I get. But I don't have like in my life frenemies who call me and neg me and shit.
That is 100% true.
They...
Fair enough. So we're talking Eileen Fisher instead of whatever else I described. Or like even above, like we might be talking about like two seasons ago, Dior, etc.
Yes. I understand.
The obvious answer here, I think, is that you have to allow it.
Two fronts. Personal and structural.
If you disagree with the politics or the sort of activity that Hazel represents, expressing that to your potentially Republican child will drive them into the arms of this Mitt Romney-sounding lady. It will turn her into the worst libertarian, right?
And similarly, if the problem is purely personal... Mm-hmm. Here is a iron clad rule. The moment you first notice your parent simply hating is impossible to forget. And it always makes you wonder what it is that the parent sees in the other person that has occasioned. this jealousy, antagonism, frenemyship, et cetera.
You have to make sure that your kid never sees you sweat in that kind of interpersonal way. You can express outright hatred, but if it's just hating, you cannot let that show. And it will similarly drive your child into the arms of Hazel, who it seems like she already sort of admires. You got to let that rock.
I'm very competitive and yet I feel that it is, and maybe this goes to my point about like not showing yourself sweat to your kids. I feel that it's usually gauche to express it, especially like in your own career. So I save my competitiveness for spades. Like if anybody wants to play me in spades, come see me and I'll talk so much shit to you. It will, it will seem out of character.
But in real life with like my own career, I like put up a veneer mostly of like, I'm just minding my own business.
It's fine until you're my partner. I can teach you and I can be over your shoulder while you play with somebody else.
Yeah. The other amazing thing about this person, our friend, is that the moment she sees somebody do something impressive, she says out loud, I could do that. I think I could do that. She says it with a tenacity and a violence that's like sort of unsettling.
Ellen needs to take up a sport immediately.
I mean, yes, suppression, first of all, never works. And also, too much of her competitive energy is making its way into the lives of her children. She has to take up tennis.
Okay. Okay. Obtain. By what means?
It's all cheating, obviously. It should be... This war of... nepotistic escalation must end this is ridiculous own means means like you know you have to forage it you need to go to central park and forage it yourself yeah make some grains from fucking dandelions found on the in the one of those dividers between the sides of broadway yes What are you talking about? Anyway.
Oh, God.
Okay.
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