Vinson Cunningham

And then I get to know them and they're okay, but I'm still like, hmm, that's the closest I get. But I don't have like in my life frenemies who call me and neg me and shit.

And then I get to know them and they're okay, but I'm still like, hmm, that's the closest I get. But I don't have like in my life frenemies who call me and neg me and shit.

That is 100% true.

That is 100% true.

They...

They...

Fair enough. So we're talking Eileen Fisher instead of whatever else I described. Or like even above, like we might be talking about like two seasons ago, Dior, etc.

Fair enough. So we're talking Eileen Fisher instead of whatever else I described. Or like even above, like we might be talking about like two seasons ago, Dior, etc.

Yes. I understand.

Yes. I understand.

The obvious answer here, I think, is that you have to allow it.

The obvious answer here, I think, is that you have to allow it.

Two fronts. Personal and structural.

Two fronts. Personal and structural.

If you disagree with the politics or the sort of activity that Hazel represents, expressing that to your potentially Republican child will drive them into the arms of this Mitt Romney-sounding lady. It will turn her into the worst libertarian, right?

If you disagree with the politics or the sort of activity that Hazel represents, expressing that to your potentially Republican child will drive them into the arms of this Mitt Romney-sounding lady. It will turn her into the worst libertarian, right?

And similarly, if the problem is purely personal... Mm-hmm. Here is a iron clad rule. The moment you first notice your parent simply hating is impossible to forget. And it always makes you wonder what it is that the parent sees in the other person that has occasioned. this jealousy, antagonism, frenemyship, et cetera.

And similarly, if the problem is purely personal... Mm-hmm. Here is a iron clad rule. The moment you first notice your parent simply hating is impossible to forget. And it always makes you wonder what it is that the parent sees in the other person that has occasioned. this jealousy, antagonism, frenemyship, et cetera.

You have to make sure that your kid never sees you sweat in that kind of interpersonal way. You can express outright hatred, but if it's just hating, you cannot let that show. And it will similarly drive your child into the arms of Hazel, who it seems like she already sort of admires. You got to let that rock.

You have to make sure that your kid never sees you sweat in that kind of interpersonal way. You can express outright hatred, but if it's just hating, you cannot let that show. And it will similarly drive your child into the arms of Hazel, who it seems like she already sort of admires. You got to let that rock.