Vivian Tu

Did you cheer for yourself?

I ask myself this all the time.

I'm like, are you proud of the work that you're doing?

And if the answer at any point becomes no, I got to stop.

Whatever it is.

Up until now, the answer has been yes.

I'm very proud of what I've done, but I think I will be clear.

I don't have any more of these frenemies in my group anymore.

Cause I just don't have time like that.

Yeah.

I don't have time to be, you know, around people who are player Hayden, like people oftentimes look at you.

And they see a mirror of the things that they have yet to accomplish or dreams that they had to sacrifice.

Or they see a reflection of the work they weren't willing to put in.

And because of that, they resent you for having put in the work.

They resent you for maybe getting a lucky break.

Because let's be honest, all of our success is largely hard work.

But some luck was involved, some good timing, some, you know –

friendly mentor, somebody helped you.

They are going to hate you for doing something that they can't.

And that sucks.