Vivian Tu

But I will say it helps you figure out who your real friends are really quickly.

I feel so lucky to quote a be a song.

I got the same five friends with me.

It's been the same five friends since college.

Like, you know, the same girls that I was friends with getting drunk with in college were the same people who were my bridesmaids at my wedding.

And I can count on them.

it's so funny sometimes when I go on like talk shows I don't even get texts from them I'll get a text from like their mom and Judy will tell me that I looked wonderful and she'll text my friend and my friend's like

I didn't even know she did that but like great I love that um and I think it's just like she's my daughter too but like that tells me my friend has gone home and talked to her mom about how proud she was of me yeah like it mattered enough to her to share with her mom yeah and so I think that's a representation of like truly wanting the best for your friends and feeling like a rising tide does lift all ships and you know

If I can be kind of crass, I mean, my friends have really benefited from the fact that I've made a good deal of money.

I'm picking up dinners.

I think I'm starting to get to the point in my life where I'm going to pick up vacations.

But I'm not going to do that for just anybody.

yeah and I'm certainly not going to do that for fake friends hell yeah yeah well also like what a joy it is that you're able to make that money and spend it lucky on people you love so lucky and like I was able to fly last minute to Vegas to spend a weekend with a girlfriend who was there for a work like a semi work thing like mullet travel work in the front party in the back and

was a situation where like no one else was able to make it and she was feeling really lonely and we were in a you know position where like i was like whatever yeah there's no price tag on good memories yeah and i went and we had the best time and yeah we have stories from that weekend and being able to support my friends in unique ways i think is really what what's the point that's the whole point

I try.

Yeah.

I try.

I'm prepping the bridesmaid budget right now.

Everybody I know is getting married.

I just don't get why you would want to be a bridesmaid at every single wedding.