Vivian Tu

a bit of prep work too as the bridesmaid like you have to know what your budget is you know you have to know what you can and can't spend and like you can't just pull that number out of thin air like yeah it has to be rooted in you doing the work i think at the end of the day what we're forgetting is these conversations the underlying red thread isn't money it's do you love your friend

And I have given this script and shared it with so many people.

And you know what happens?

Some of the brides go full bridezilla and they're like, how dare you?

You don't prioritize me.

But it's like, girl, you never loved your friend.

Yeah, you loved being a show pony.

You love standing up there with the lights and the cameras all on you.

you wanted this to be about you you never cared about your friend you never for my bachelor party I sent out a survey monkey is that like so lame by the way like it's kind of cute but I sent out a survey monkey that was like tell me your name by the way this is an anonymous survey it will only be seen by me like the other bridesmaids the maid of honor the person planning nobody will see this what weekends are you available so that was really easy people just check their calendar

How much would you like to spend on your, on the bachelorette party?

What is your vibe?

Are you trying to party?

Are you trying to chill?

Are you trying to do a little bit of both?

What kind of setting would you like it to be in?

So like major city.

And I picked like places that I wanted to go.

So like Vegas, did I want to go to a beach?

So maybe like Miami, we could do it in Miami or maybe do an Austin or Nashville, which are classic.

Um, and.