Vivian Tu
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
In some cases, I told friends, I was like, don't come to the bachelorette.
I'd rather you just come to the wedding.
Great.
In another case, you could come back and say, totally understand.
It's really important for me to have you there for my bachelorette party.
Can I help cover some of these costs?
That's something a bride can do.
And it is something that I have offered to people.
So it's a bit of a give and take.
You both have to be level-headed, reasonable people.
I want to be transparent, but Jean also has to be understanding and decide what is more valuable to her.
Or Jean can just be like, totally hear you, really understand.
If that is the case, I don't want to change my plans, but I would still love for you to attend the wedding as a guest.
Yeah, and have you standing up there with me.
Yes.
Like, don't worry about coming to anything.
Don't worry about coming to anything else.
I love you and I want you there.
I want you to be there.
Yeah.