William Curb
speaker
2,678 appearances
17 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2026
last heard 14 Aug
William Curb’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Thanks again to Ron for coming on the show and thank you for sticking with us all the way to the end.
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Before you go though, let's do a quick rundown of today's top tips.
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One.
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Try out the 2 vs 9 scale for expectation management.
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We often fail to start because we set the entry level bar at a 9, like cooking 7 nights a week, which can often feel impossible.
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If instead we intentionally lower our aim to something that's more around the lines of a two, we bypass the brain's frozen state and create a low friction path to initiation.
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Two
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Many of us with ADHD actively avoid giving ourselves credit because we've been conditioned to fear that if we're satisfied, it will lead to complacency.
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Mechanically, however, withholding credit creates a narrative vacuum in our operating system.
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Our brain assumes it just didn't happen.
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It looks at everything left to do, decides we're failing, and triggers a total system freeze, what Ron calls a cement wall.
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The fix here isn't forcing toxic positive affirmations your brain knows are fake, it just takes factual data entry.
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Take a second to acknowledge that you move from a level 1 to a level 2.
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You're not throwing yourself a parade, you're just hitting save so your brain has the baseline level to keep moving forward without crashing.
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Three.
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Setbacks are inevitable, but the duration of the setback is determined by your level of self-shame.
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Implementing a grace period or a mental hug isn't about being soft.
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It's a strategic tool to reduce the time spent in a frozen state and get us back to baseline faster.
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All right, that's it.
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Thanks for listening.
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