Xander Marin
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2,548 appearances
9 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 10 Sep
Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Therefore I am permanently excused from doing ABC.
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That's that is not gonna be successful in a relationship.
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And I think that that's sort of a reason why it's not really healthy to think about
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relationship conflict or or damage as like all one person or all another person.
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It's like we all have some role to play in things, even if the role that the other person plays is really negligible.
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I do think though that's like a powerful way to to help us start to understand like, oh okay, we can't set up this thing where it's like, oh well you hurt me.
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So therefore I will never do blah blah blah again.
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Like 'cause that's just gonna that's just
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gonna create problems and it's gonna create an imbalanced power dynamic too that is going to cause you problems in conflict.
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And I don't think that's what anybody wants.
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So that's that's kind of why I was uh I was I was talking about that.
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Yeah, okay.
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He wants sex a certain number of times a month and refuses to give on it.
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We both have had very busy schedules and well when illnesses, stress, busyness, and life in general gets in the way, he gets frustrated if we don't do it X amount of times in that month.
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I don't think there's a minimum quote we should be trying to meet every month, but he does.
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ridiculous ish.
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Like I I uh the number the the the quota thing
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is problematic.
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I think what if it's like okay, I I don't n I'm just gonna make it up up a number.
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What if you're like, okay, my the quota is ten times a month?
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