Xander Marin

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2,548 appearances 9 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 10 Sep

Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Pillow Talks · E275: Reasonable or Ridiculous? Sex Quotas, Oral Every Time, and Dirty Talk Dealbreakers · 27 Aug 2026 podcast

Dip your toes back into the world of initiation. podcast-host

You could say you you could give a guarantee. podcast-host

Like I I will like I will commit to saying yes in any situation podcast-host

during this next week, during the next two weeks. podcast-host

Because that that is a way to sort of throw a bone, so to speak, an acknowledgement. podcast-host

Hey, I know that I did something that really contributed to you feeling uncomfortable and your fear. podcast-host

Is that y I'm gonna say no and and that's gonna make you feel like a dick. podcast-host

I would want to investigate that feeling like a dick part of it. podcast-host

That's something probably to dig into because in the future she will say no. podcast-host

Some we will all say no to initiation sometimes. podcast-host

And so we need to find a way to podcast-host

to be like, hey, my me being a dick or a good person is not tied one to one podcast-host

whether my partner says yes. podcast-host

And I understand that there's a history in why you have that association, but that is something that we can't just go, Oh, you you hurt me in this way and now I always will have this connection. podcast-host

That's not gonna work. podcast-host

So that is one option. podcast-host

I also just want to clarify the reason why I was really kind of nitpicking on like, hey, I this can't all be her fault, is that I do think that podcast-host

Yeah, we in in relationships we often we sometimes do shitty things to each other, but we can't podcast-host

w we can't set up a dynamic where it's like, hey, you did X, Y, and Z to me. podcast-host

this one time or during this period of time and that really hurt. podcast-host

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