Xander Marin
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2,897 appearances
10 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 6d ago
Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I do not think that that is ridiculous.
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That is not unreasonable.
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That is So it's reasonable.
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That is highly reasonable, yes.
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That being said, yes, y we do have to consider the history
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what has happened.
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I think that
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I I I'm i in general I'm always sort of suspicious when someone goes, Oh well, it's my fault that my husband doesn't initiate.
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Like I think that in almost all of these situations, relationship dynamics, like we each play a part in that.
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I don't think it's necessarily like I am the only reason that this is happening.
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I get that she was mean.
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Okay, here's what I don't know, 'cause because you know, there there's nothing about this in the response that the person gave.
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So I think the typical pattern when this happens is that
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One person stops initiating because the other person is mean to them, is always saying no, is, you know, is doing something that doesn't feel good.
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But it's not that they just stop, it's that typically the person stops initiating without saying anything to the other person.
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It's more of a it's it's sort of like a test.
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Oh, okay, well, she's gonna be mean to me.
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I'm just gonna stop and see what she thinks about that.
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But I think if this is the situation that it typically is where it's sort of like he stops because he's like, Oh, well, she's never gonna say yeah, so let's let's wait, let's just stop initiating, wait and see how long.
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Yeah.
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