Xander Marin
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2,897 appearances
10 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 6d ago
Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I think that that is I I don't know if it's necessarily like an equal role, but you are playing a role.
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You're you're giving an unspoken test to your partner to see how long it's gonna be before they notice.
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And so you're actually both both of you are doing something kind of mean and underhanded.
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something sexier.
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I think another thing this is only if she is open to it, is what you could say is, you know, you know, in this in this first week that you are going to dabble your toes into initiation.
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Like
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Dip your toes.
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Oh, yeah, yeah.
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Dip your toes into
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Dip your toes back into the world of initiation.
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You could say you you could give a guarantee.
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Like I I will like I will commit to saying yes in any situation
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during this next week, during the next two weeks.
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Because that that is a way to sort of throw a bone, so to speak, an acknowledgement.
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Hey, I know that I did something that really contributed to you feeling uncomfortable and your fear.
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Is that y I'm gonna say no and and that's gonna make you feel like a dick.
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I would want to investigate that feeling like a dick part of it.
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That's something probably to dig into because in the future she will say no.
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Some we will all say no to initiation sometimes.
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And so we need to find a way to
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