Xander Marin

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2,897 appearances 10 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 17 Sep

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Pillow Talks · E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years) · 3 Sep 2026 podcast

But if you, and this is like me, if you're like me and things feel a little shaky between the two of you, a little questionable. podcast-host

You might think, sex? podcast-host

Oh my God, no, we got to get on more solid emotional footing before sex is back on the table. podcast-host

And in that case, you are more an emotional desire type. podcast-host

You want to feel emotional connection, a certain amount of that before physical connection starts to feel good. podcast-host

And so if you can identify you or ideally your partner on both of those aspects. podcast-host

then you are, you know, one of four combinations. podcast-host

And each of these combinations has different things about them that are going to be important to understand. podcast-host

So if that is your partner, that is probably a good sign that you could say or do close to anything sexual at almost any time, and it would be have a higher likelihood of turning them on. podcast-host

They are less likely to be like, oh no, this is not the time or the place. podcast-host

In fact, they might actually respond better to a more random kind. podcast-host

Of initiation or text message or comment. podcast-host

So if you're thinking, oh, how do I turn my partner on more? podcast-host

If you are not this type, you're probably thinking, oh, well, it has to be this very specific way at a very specific time. podcast-host

And if this is your partner, maybe you should be like, hold on. podcast-host

There don't need to be any rules about this, like literally any time. podcast-host

And probably the most random time might be the most meaningful. podcast-host

Yeah, because I think a lot of people, like Vanessa said, are hear this brain and physical desire type are like, oh well that that sounds like the ideal. podcast-host

I will say that one of the biggest challenges, if you are this desire type, is it people of that type often podcast-host

Will push back against regular intimacy, against perceived like the same type of thing over and over. podcast-host

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