Xander Marin

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3,285 appearances 11 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 5d ago

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Pillow Talks · E273: How to Try New Sex Positions Without Killing the Mood · 13 Aug 2026 podcast

A sound or a surface of a certain height, but if you don't have that height, like our bed is too low, sadly.

But you can you can't you can use you can use a pillow to prop yourself up.

Yeah, this is a really good question.

And I think that this is one of the reasons, whether it is that you struggle with the, you know, the the the penis haver losing their erection or losing some of it while you're switching positions, or whether you just feel awkward moving around.

I think this can be one of the biggest reasons why people are hesitant to try anything new or to even try anything beyond just a single position, which

Is usually missionary.

I kind of want to go for just the first question first.

I would be to this person, I would be really curious.

When you say it kills the mood, what does that mean for you?

Are you talking personally, like just for you it takes you out of the moment?

Or is this like both of you, you and your partner are both like feel like you kind of the experience diminishes after you switch positions?

Cause I think that there's definitely there's some technical things that we could talk about, but I think that there's also some sort of like mindset and maybe even

kind of like shame things that could be coming up where, you know, I do think that

If you were raised in a fairly sex negative household, sex negative society, pretty much if you were born in the US, you grew up in a sex negative society, or at least at the very best, maybe sex neutral.

If we have it in our head that sex isn't really supposed to, like it's not really supposed to be that enjoyable, it's something that we're supposed to do, um, or that we're supposed to do just for procreation.

that can feel at odds with well if we're having sex and we're switching positions around willy-nilly like we're clearly having a good time with it.

So I think that

We gotta get really honest with ourselves about what is coming up for you.

Are there any other kind of like mental blockages that you think might be coming up?

There's probably some body confidence stuff as well.

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