Xander Marin
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3,285 appearances
11 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 5d ago
Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I get into those moments at times and I still find myself being like, Oh, just gotta put my head down and get through this.
Like, you know, rather than being like, Oh, you know, hey, you know what?
Like I actually don't wanna change positions because I am feel like I might get a little soft.
So, one idea is come up with a little code word or something.
Talk about it in a neutral moment of like, you know, just share the experience.
Hey, this is, you know, it can be really hard in the moment because I want to be having sex with you.
And I'm battling that desire is, you know, kind of battling against this little voice in my head that's like, hey, your erection feels like maybe it's not all the way there.
The last thing that you want to be doing is thinking about.
Having more thought on that side, the side that's worried, the side that's anxious about it.
So if there's just a you know little little code word that you want to have where it's just like, hey, this is the situation, let's let's stay in this position or you know, let's not make any adjustments, because if we do, I worry that I won't be able to finish.
Um, I think that could be a great, a great conversation to have.
And then finally, if you find that you regularly
You know, with with like a couple seconds of not any stimulation, you're starting to lose your erection.
There are a couple options.
Like you can use your hand, the moment you pull out to change positions, you can use your hand to give yourself some more stimulation.
You can have a conversation with your partner again at a neutral moment about, hey, this is what it's like for me.
Like if you know, I I want to be trying more positions with you, and it's really too
Challenging because I find that without constant stimulation, I start to lose the erection.
And then we can't do the more positions.
And so ask, you know, is your partner open to using their hand on you, using their mouth on you temporarily, you know, for like 30 seconds or something in between switching positions?
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