Xander Marin
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3,285 appearances
11 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 5d ago
Xander Marin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I feel like, but here's the thing with this one.
I think that it all it really depends on the vibe.
And I think that also there might be a gender difference in this as well.
Because for men, I think that men can be more inclined to like switch, switch, switch, switch.
Because for men, the the like if you chart sort of like
the level of pleasure over time, typically the the longer like or like the how close you are to orgasm over time, for most men it's kind of like an upward thing.
If you keep having sex and you're gonna get closer and closer and closer.
And for the most part if you're like if we take a
10 second break to switch positions.
I'm like, I might move down like one notch in terms of pleasure, but I'll be right back to where I was a s like a couple seconds later.
I'm not like, oh, I guess I'm starting from zero again.
Whereas many women need longer, more sustained stimulation.
in a you know in a certain position or you know in a certain position with additional like you know hand stimulation on the clit.
And so the act of switching can set you back depending on kind of your own relationship with orgasm.
So I think that this is something that there there isn't a clear answer.
It's more of a it's more of a couple by couple conversation, I think of hey, what is each person's experience?
And especially if there's one person
that typically takes a little longer to orgasm or, you know, needs something more specific than the other partner, I would generally default to that person's needs rather than the other person's in terms of informing like, you know,
How long we spend.
If one if the one person's like, hey, you know, it when we switch positions every minute, I feel like I can't catch up.
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