Zach Brittle

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637 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2026 last heard 27 Jul

Zach Brittle’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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And if you go, yeah, keep doing that, they're going to keep doing that.

If you say, ouch, they're going to stop.

I mean, that's the nature of being in that kind of intimate environment and communicating effectively.

And so I'll tell clients, like, why is it any different in your emotional life or your intellectual life?

It feels good when you do this.

Ouch, please stop.

Can you try to become good lovers for one another by help training them how you're going to come intellectually or emotionally or spiritually?

For couples who are new at this, people who are new at this, I usually tell them to be hyper-explicit.

I think this might come out sounding like a demand, but I'm really trying with all my heart to express a desire.

So please hear me as best you can with those ears because I really want you to change this thing.

But hyper explicit makes it really hard to fill in the gaps for your partner, like

if they're like, is this a demand?

Are you threatening me?

I'm not threatening you.

It might sound like a threat because I'm not very good at this right now.

But I do want to tell you something that's important to me.

Hyper explicit can go a long way for people, particularly when they're trying to learn early on.

That's the same when we practice guitar.

No, do this.

It's going to hurt.

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