Zerky
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4,670 appearances
18 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2025
last heard 24 Feb
Zerky’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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But another thing happens where that person won't like the fact that you're changing.
And oftentimes this happens when you have kind of a fragile relationship or you have a relationship that's kind of built on situations or built on misconceptions of who you are.
If somebody really loves you and really wants the best for you, will they beg for you to stay in your hometown when you're thinking of leaving?
Will they tell you that you won't find anything better than what you have right here?
And will they stop you from trying something?
If that's the case, I don't think they're good for you.
And maybe they were good for you.
Maybe they were great for you.
Maybe they really did make you laugh, like belly laugh, and you had to gasp for air.
But that's just not you anymore.
Now the question arises, like, Zerk, how do I leave somebody and do it in a polite manner?
And this is a hard thing.
I wish I had a better answer for you, because I'm not good at this either, bro.
I've ghosted people.
I've been one to kind of just ignore texts.
I've been one to...
say hey I didn't see your message I saw your message I saw your message I didn't respond to it and you know what I think the more that you pursue the friendships that matter the more that you pursue the relationships that matter in your life this is going to sound kind of messed up but those friendships fade no three-point fade they just naturally kind of those people will find the people they need to be around
And it doesn't mean that you're better than them.
That's a common thing.
Like, I think there's sometimes a notion of, like, I need to befriend people who are doing way more.
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