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Again, the characteristics are what matter.

That's what's going to continue to build your relationship.

But also, I don't think you should look at what's going on right now as, well, this is just a moment.

It's not.

Obviously, there's some kind of discomfort.

Obviously, you're not happy.

We can admit that.

Obviously, you feel like something is going down the drain.

And I think it's worth examining that feeling and asking yourself, what are you so tied to here?

Why is it so hard to leave somebody?

Well, it's because you've put in time.

Maybe some of your own personality has been sunk into this relationship and you feel like this is the only thing that defines you.

With every sunset, no matter how beautiful, how wonderful, the sun's going to rise the next day.

And just kind of telling yourself, well, this is it.

You hold onto things that are so bad for you because you're afraid of being alone because you're afraid of change because you're afraid of going down the path that you know is going to be better for you, but there's no clear stable option.

When do you give up on somebody?

What if that somebody is yourself?

When do you tell yourself I'm done?

It's over.

We tried.