Zurkie

It hurts.

It hurts.

I mean, imagine that.

Imagine all the breakups you went through, all the friendships that you ended, all of the moments in your life where you asked yourself, why is this happening to me?

And you come to the realization that none of that you needed to go through in the way that you did.

You didn't have to have such a negative outlook on all of these things you had no control over and you didn't have to punish yourself for things that you didn't do.

I don't think that's a reality check that people like, but it's 100% most of the time they want the one they need.

So what do we do now?

You're kind of having second thoughts.

You've told yourself, okay, maybe I do need to give up.

Maybe I do have to let go of this.

I think the answer is you got to realize that it's not in your control anymore.

Because if things were meant to go the way that you thought in your mind they would, they would have, but they haven't.

You do have to stop trying to push them.

And you just have to tell them, I'm here for you if you need it, but I cannot be the person that will change you.

You have to support them and you have to set boundaries.

It's a weird thing.

Well, where's the difference?

Aren't you supposed to be somebody's, you know, concierge, especially if you're their best friend on how to fix their problems?

Well, no, not quite.