Almost Adulting with Violet Benson
She's a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)
27 Feb 2024
Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own music singles.Violetta and talk about the complexities of childcare, the challenges of maintaining friendships, and a potential sneak peek of Vanderpump Season 11. Plus the duo spills the tea on lost friendships, potential redemption arcs, and the behind-the-scenes drama you won't hear anywhere else. On a serious note, bravely shares her experiences with postpartum OCD, the healing power of EMDR therapy, and the heartbreaking reality of pregnancy loss. It's a raw and vulnerable exploration of mental health, friendship dynamics, and the bittersweet journey of self-discovery. If you are looking to listen to today's episode without any ads or interruptions, feel free to subscribe to my subscription podcast at https://almostadulting.supercast.com/. What’s more? You'll get an extra episode every Saturday each month!What to Listen For:00:00 Intro01:27 What’s one thing people misunderstood about you in the show?02:30 How did motherhood change you? 04:13 What’s your biggest fear around getting help with babysitting your child?07:06 Have you had support from other new moms?07:45 What’s a question someone has never asked you?08:30 “I’m never the favorite of this show.” 12:18 Hopes for Season 1113:17 Losing a friendship of 15 years17:09 Is the new season setting the stage for Sandoval’s redemption arc?19:16 Are you the friend that flip-flops?20:38 Figuring out a way to not breakdown in front of your child22:24 Friendship pact with Katie 24:37 What can people look forward to this season?26:05 Is Billie Lee in love with Tom Sandoval?33:31 Postpartum OCD39:39 EMDR Therapy 43:35 Pregnancy loss and traumatic labor45:13 Severe intrusive thoughts47:07 Signs of OCD before pregnancy50:54 Thinking of death everydayConnect with Scheana on:https://www.instagram.com/scheana/ https://twitter.com/scheana https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9jgdbAu8PZMmfYZBj2xnog https://www.tiktok.com/@scheana Get more content on:https://www.instagram.com/almostadulting/https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/https://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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