Sheryl Underwood on Flagrant

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What is discussed at the start of this section?

Cheryl Underwood 0:00
Y'all might want to start the camera right now. Let it roll. Yeah. Well, I think that, okay, there's, when you, so when you guys, all of you are married.
Andrew Schulz 0:08
Yes.

What are the dynamics of relationships according to Sheryl Underwood?

Andrew Schulz 0:08
Yeah.
Cheryl Underwood 0:09
Okay.
Andrew Schulz 0:09
He's not really married. He likes to pretend like he's married. He's married.
Cheryl Underwood 0:12
Is that, what is this? Shacking or what's that?

How does Sheryl Underwood describe her father's influence on her leadership style?

Cheryl Underwood 0:15
No, we engage. You engage. Oh, okay. So you almost. You bought a ring.

What experiences does Sheryl share about performing for the military?

Cheryl Underwood 0:18
You married. Yes. Right. Okay. Got it. Got it. Got it. So you married. So you, you fell in love with the girl. Oh, you fell in love with the girl. Is there anything that she does to this day that still drive you up a wall?
Andrew Schulz 0:33
Like, it annoys me? Yes. No, she's perfect.
Cheryl Underwood 0:39
You did Jack Benny. You're not even lying, right? Hey, come on, right? That's not a lie at all. It's side business now. Side business. Side business now. So you're going to leave her and bury me? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I don't want to do it, right? That's right. I'm going to call her right now. Never coming home. Sunshine. I want to talk about me talking to somebody that I was like, what is it?
Andrew Schulz 1:11
Something was frustrating you. We could tell.
Cheryl Underwood 1:13
But here's I'm trying this new thing.
Andrew Schulz 1:15
Yeah.
Cheryl Underwood 1:15
And this new thing is called figure out where you can be contributing to your own frustration. Accountability? There you go. And I wish more bitches had it. How do we get them to get it? It's a new book we can all write together. Hey, bitch, you are the problem. You are contributing to this. We've been trying to write that book for a long time. That's not a book. This is a scientific paper. Okay. So how do we solve this theory? How do we test it?
Andrew Schulz 1:46
How have you noticed that you're the problem? How can you think you're the problem when you're on fire right now? It seems like every decision you made was the right decision.
Cheryl Underwood 1:53
Well, I would say most. If you're 90%, it's the 10 that you need to work on. So if you're communicating with someone and they don't seem to be understanding, then the first thing I look at is, because my dad taught me, look at yourself first. So am I not conveying it right? Or did I believe, now this is where I think me as a woman, did I believe that you were capable of of not doing what you're doing. So if I believe that you were capable of not doing the thing that annoys me, then I'm the problem because I believed it. No, I believed that you were not going to do the thing. If you don't like hair on soap,
Yeah.
Cheryl Underwood 2:34
And every time this dude comes over. Who's hair? It's his hair on my soap. So he ain't taking my bar of soap and rubbing his balls with it. Damn. Can I say that? Yeah, you can say it. I'm rubbing his balls with it. Yeah, yeah. And then it's in my shower, but I'm in love with this dude. Yeah. And I go, what this motherfucker with the pubic hair on my damn soap? Yeah. But if I believe that he's incapable, if he's capable of not doing that.
Yeah.
Cheryl Underwood 2:59
But he continues to do it. So either it's a challenge to authority somewhere in there.
Yeah.
Cheryl Underwood 3:04
okay because he doesn't want to be controlled so this bitch keep asking me about the pubic hair on the soap and i keep telling this bitch showing this bitch i'm gonna put the pubic hair on the goddamn man there is an ego in it which is like stop telling me what to do yes it's almost like you need to suggest it or ask it but telling there's a thing about the being told what i say might you consider
Andrew Schulz 3:27
See, I think we look at that and we just, yeah, she just told me what the fuck to do.
Cheryl Underwood 3:32
Well, see, I feel like it's the man. You remember when I was, I don't know if y'all saw me on Shannon Sharp's Club Che Che, right? And he asked me, how did I feel being the breadwinner? I'm like, I'm not the breadwinner. I'm the person who might make more money in a relationship depends on who the man is. But I'm not the breadwinner. The man is the breadwinner. And we live off of what you do. My money is in addition to, hey, you want to be a cowboy? I'm going to send you to Montana to learn how to be a cowboy for your birthday.
Right.
Andrew Schulz 4:03
So you when you're with a guy, you will live completely within the means of his salary if that's what he wants to do.
Cheryl Underwood 4:12
Well, first, I got to get to being engaged or married or being that girl for you.

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