ADHD Women & Identity: Why You Don’t Recognize Yourself After ADHD Diagnosis If you’ve ever had the thought, “Wait… so that’s not actually who I am?”, this episode is for you. In this episode of Angry on the Inside, Jess and Jeannine talk about the identity shift that happens for so many women after an ADHD diagnosis the part no one really prepares you for. Because diagnosis doesn’t just give you answers. It can completely change how you see yourself. The beliefs you carried for years, the ones that explained why things felt harder, why you struggled to follow through, why you felt like you were always trying to keep up start to fall apart. And underneath that, there’s often a much harder question: Who am I without all of that? Jess and Jeannine get into: Why ADHD diagnosis can feel empowering and destabilizing How masking shapes identity in ADHD women (often without realizing it) The experience of not recognizing yourself anymore Why self-acceptance doesn’t just “click” after diagnosis What happens when you stop people pleasing and start setting boundaries The fear of changing and how it impacts relationships Why you’re not “going back” to who you were, and what it means to rebuild instead How understanding your values can help you start figuring out what actually works for you This isn’t about becoming a “better version” of yourself. It’s about understanding who you’ve been, what you’ve been carrying, and what you actually want to keep. If you’re in that space where everything feels a little uncertain you’re not doing it wrong. And you’re not alone. 🎧 CHAPTERS 00:00 ADHD Women & Identity: “Who Am I?” 00:28 Why ADHD Diagnosis Doesn’t Just Explain Your Life It Rearranges It 01:43 ADHD Identity Shift: Losing the Version of Yourself You Thought Was “You” 03:20 Masking in ADHD Women: The Identity You Built to Get Through the Day 05:26 After ADHD Diagnosis: Why You Don’t Know Who You Are Anymore 07:07 ADHD Women & Identity: Looking Back at When You Felt Most Like Yourself 09:58 What Happens When You Stop People Pleasing After ADHD Diagnosis 13:27 Rebuilding Identity After ADHD Diagnosis: What Actually Works for You

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