Ep #197: Suzanne Raja: How to Align Power, Pleasure, and Purpose in Love
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Business Growth Architect Show: Founders of the Future
33 min
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8 chapters
transcribed 17 days ago
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Why do high‑achievers often feel empty in their relationships?
You can succeed in everything in life, your business with money, but starve in your relationship.
When you're doing things from a place of automatic, this is where things go all over the place. He's the king, and I am a queen in the relationship. There is only one queen, and that queen is me. I wondered Am I valuable? I had moments where I felt not good enough. Go back to the source of life itself. Spend some time in nature, and you will start to find yourself again. When we're not feeling pleasure in our own bodies, it's difficult for you to engage with others.
Сузен You say that you can succeed in everything in life, your business with money, but starve in your relationship.
Why do people do that? Priorities or lack of priority, lack of the right priorities. You know it's um priorities come from actually tuning in. to really what is the most what is the truest place for me to move? What is the most aligned to who I am. And following that impulse, what am I really about? What what do I value? When you when you're not tuning into that, when you're not taking the time to breathe, taking the time with yourself, go inside. And everything else is more important. Everything else, you gotta gotta gotta gotta go there. You don't take the moment to tune in, then you start to act from automatic. And when you're doing things from a place of automatic, this is where things go all over the place.
It's about coming back and rooting in. And aligning your life With the deepest part of you and your priorities will come from that place and you follow that.
You know, I always say that when people don't find balance that there's only three things you can blow up in your life. That's your health, your relationship, or your business. And I see a lot of people blow up their relationship. Is it that people don't value the relationship or do men and women have different values as they go into relationships? And what I mean by that is I have noticed that men have a harder time to commit, but once they commit, Sometimes it feels like that's it. They're done. They don't need to do anything more. What are you noticing in your work on how these dynamics work?
I notice whether it's men or women, they are not coming back and tuning in what is deepest in their soul and aligning their life with that. When one does not do that, when one does not take the time and you know, maybe wake up, one of my practices is I wake up extra early in the morning before every before the consciousness of the world, before the consciousness of my home arises. I make sure that I go to bed at a certain time so that I can have enough rest, so that I'm up at least two hours before everyone else wakes up, so that I can tune back into what. Is what really matters, listening to that voice inside of me that's very faint that says. Okay, yes, go here. No, this, that. It's just very simple.
Listening to that. Listening to the inside and not getting lost in the noise. I feel that when we get lost in the noise, that is when relationships go awry. We make mistakes. We do and say things that are not in alignment with who we are. Investment. the time in ourselves and in our deepest, the deepest part of us that has the truth of the way we need to be, the way me we need to be showing up in the world. For ourselves, And for our partners and for et cetera, et cetera, et cetera, and so on, but it starts at home.
So I have to ask this question because you are married to a very powerful man. Hmm. And A very masculine powerful man. Yes.
How do priorities and inner tuning affect love and business success?
How do you Reclaim your femininity or how do you I don't want to say stand up to it because that would be the wrong terminology, but how do you keep your part of this equally strong without it squashing you?
Ha ha ha ha I love that question. So You know, again, it's going back to the time that I take for myself, the time that I invest in myself. I spend a lot of time in nature. I spend a lot of time moving my body, coming into my body, learning about my body, enjoying my body, valuing who I am and what I bring. I'm a queen in this relationship.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Why do high‑achievers often feel empty in their relationships?
0:02–4:52
2
How do priorities and inner tuning affect love and business success?
4:52–9:26
3
What does it mean to be a ‘queen’ in a partnership and how does that shift power dynamics?
9:26–13:31
4
Why is spending time in nature essential for reconnecting with pleasure and intimacy?
13:31–18:15
5
How can a simple breathing practice restore joy, pleasure, and presence in daily life?
18:15–22:19
6
What is the 10‑minute journaling exercise for uncovering grief and gaining clarity?
22:19–26:08
7
How does Suzanne’s ‘spa for the soul’ approach help clients feel, release, and heal quickly?
26:08–30:23
8
Where can listeners find Suzanne Raja’s work, retreats, and resources to continue the journey?
30:23–33:40