In this solo episode, Hillary dives deep into one of the most universal challenges of the human experience: our desire to control the external in order to feel safe, worthy, or at peace internally. This conversation explores the subtle yet powerful ways our subconscious patterns try to protect us—through perfectionism, control, people-pleasing, or over-responsibility—only to reinforce the very fears we're trying to escape.Hillary shares a powerful reframe: what if you’re not off path, not behind, not broken—but simply in a sacred transition? What if the future doesn’t need to be figured out in order for you to feel safe right now?We explore:Why control is often a trauma response, not a truthHow to rewire your body to feel safe in uncertaintyThe difference between ego fear and soul truthThe hidden cost of compensatory patterns like overdoing and provingA powerful client story that illustrates the energetic shift from fear to freedomWhy you're never separate from life force energy—and how to reconnect to it nowThis episode is a soulful transmission to help you shift from resistance to resonance. From gripping to allowing. From survival to true creation.You’ll be reminded that the future is not your source of safety—your connection to self is.Want to dive deeper, explore more here: ENROLMENTS NOW OPEN FOR SPRING/AUTUM COHORT: BECOME A HUMAN DESIGN READER AND CREATE YOUR DREAM CAREER & BUSINESS with the Advanced Human Design Certification POWER PRACTICE AND TIMELINE SHIFTING PODCAST CREATE SPACE: Course for future conscious entrepreneurs to clarify & launch their most expansive business offering, their way. 1:1 Breakthrough Session with Hillary PATH TO PURPOSE: A roadmap to uncovering and stepping into your purpose, mission and life's work. Instagram Get your free Human Design Chart

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