“Un-said” Things That Women Carry
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What unsaid burdens do mothers carry in their daily lives?
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How can mothers seek more fulfillment in their lives?
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What challenges arise from keeping the peace in family dynamics?
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Hey y'all, welcome back to For the Moms podcast. Today we're gonna be talking about the unsaid things women carry.
What is the invisible mental load that mothers experience?
I'm Jazz.
I'm Valerie. I'm Kelsey.
How does the fear of judgment affect mothers' decisions?
And I'm Ariel.
And we are For the Moms. Okay.
What does living busy lives mean for modern mothers?
All right y'all, so to get into it, do you ever feel resentful about always being the strong one for everyone?
I think sometimes, especially being a mom, being a wife, carrying all that burden, just like the day-to-day tasks, sometimes I'll let it get to me. I'll be like, Eric, you don't have to deal with this. And that kind of does.
How do mothers deal with feelings of not being enough?
But I mean, other than that, no, not really. We bicker about it. He's like, well, then you go to my job. I'm like, that, okay. You stay home with these kids for just a day, and then we'll talk.
What strategies can help mothers express their needs without guilt?
Why does it always feel like it's a competition? Like who is the busiest or who – handles the most whatever. Like, I always feel like it's a competition. Like, who's more tired? Yeah.
Oh, yeah. Me and Eric said that one last night. He said, I get up at four o'clock in the morning. I said, bitch, I gotta deal with these kids and get, I have to make them survive. Like, I have to help them survive throughout the day. Like,
It always feels like it's a little competition.
Yeah. I feel resentful sometimes. Not too much, but definitely if it's been a long day and it's like me doing a lot. I mean, Josh helps out a lot, but it can definitely make you feel that way.
Between the breakfast, the dressing, taking care of yourself, taking care of the kids.
Just before the school, getting them ready. And fixing the lunchbox and the snacks and the water bottles.
Oh, God. This morning, we're out of the subdivision. Ava said... I forgot my breakfast on the table. You're going to be hungry. I'm hungry. And I already had to pick up my nephews to bring them to school. I'm here I go, turning around. We were late this morning.
Do you ever struggle with feeling not enough and too much at the same time?
Absolutely.
Yeah. I think everybody does. I think if you don't feel that way, then you're not normal. Yeah. Because that's definitely... Definitely one for the majority of the people. Do you ever feel guilty for wanting more out of your life, even when others think you should be satisfied?
I'm sure you do, for sure. But I feel like it's normal to always want more. Right? Or want to better yourself. I feel like if you're thinking of the business standpoint.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
You know, you always want to do more, but, you know, I feel like.
And I feel like more so for me and I'm sure others that do social media, like I don't want to make people feel a certain type of way, you know, just because like, oh, if we buy a house or if we was to buy a new vehicle, like, you know, like are bettering ourselves. And then some people look down on that. They're like, oh, well. That's bragging.
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I never understand it. It's like. I feel like I want to watch – I want to see anybody grow. Absolutely. You know, see them succeed. But some people don't.
Some people don't, yeah.
They want you to stay at the exact same way forever. They don't want to see you grow. Yeah.
And that's terrible because even if I'm not growing, I hope somebody else can grow. Like just because – if I'm not making a dollar, it doesn't mean somebody else can't make a dollar. You know what I mean? And that's no way to be. Yeah. But I have learned that like with doing social media that – That's how the real world is.
It's the same thing with me building a house. People are all like, what's wrong with the house that you're living in?
Yeah. For starters, Austin's sleeping on top of Mason, and Mason's sleeping on top of Morgan.
I'm like, we don't have enough rooms for all the kids first off.
Yeah, and Valerie couldn't stop getting pregnant.
But it's like, we want land. We live in a subdivision, and that subdivision life is for everybody.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What unsaid burdens do mothers carry in their daily lives?
0:00–0:07
2
How can mothers seek more fulfillment in their lives?
0:07–0:11
3
What challenges arise from keeping the peace in family dynamics?
0:11–0:26
4
What is the invisible mental load that mothers experience?
0:26–0:28
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How does the fear of judgment affect mothers' decisions?
0:28–0:31
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What does living busy lives mean for modern mothers?
0:31–0:53
7
How do mothers deal with feelings of not being enough?
0:53–1:05
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What strategies can help mothers express their needs without guilt?
1:05–20:33