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Chapter 1: What are the benefits of spiritual practices according to research?
What would happen if you took the world's major religions, set aside the theology for a moment, and studied just the rituals? The meditation, the chanting, the prayers of gratitude, the contemplation of death, the communal meals, the morning practices. Study them as technologies. Technology is designed to work on your mind and body in specific, measurable ways.
That's what my guest today, David DeSteno, has done. He's a professor of psychology at Northeastern and the author of How God Works. And he runs a social emotions group where his lab studies the mechanics behind compassion, gratitude, moral behavior, and increasingly morality. Why the data on people who are engaged in spiritual practice and often who believe in God are so striking.
We're talking a 30% lower all-cause mortality, less depression, greater sense of meaning, better health outcomes across the board. And here's what makes this conversation lend differently than most conversations about faith. Thank you for watching. And we are walking away from them at the exact moment we may need them most. In this conversation, we go into what he calls spiritual technologies.
The rituals hiding in plain sight inside every major faith tradition that science is now revealing to be remarkably effective at helping us deal with loss, find meaning, build connection, and navigate the exact season of life that most of us listening are in right now.
We talk about a Hindu concept called vanaprastha, the midlife pivot from accumulation to sharing wisdom, and why making that shift earlier might actually be the single most important thing you do for your happiness. And we sit with the honest question of what it looks like to build a spiritual life if you've left the one you were raised in.
This one really made me think and feel and want to just sit quietly afterwards. So excited to share this conversation with you. I'm Jonathan Fields, and this is Good Life Project. I have been somebody who's been fascinated by the role of spirituality, of faith, of religion in our lives for a long time.
I remember a chunk of years ago stumbling upon a bit of research that effectively said that if you are somebody who is a person of faith, that... You're more likely to experience positive experiences and outcomes, whether that makes you happier, healthier, potentially even more, quote, successful. Is this true?
I think it depends on exactly how you define those terms. So the data on religion and spirituality show a few things. One, I want to make it clear that What the data really look at is what's called religious or spiritual engagement. So it's not just saying, I believe in God. It is, are you actually going to services?
If you're a person who is following a more Eastern philosophy, are you actually meditating? Are you doing the things that you're supposed to do in a faith? You know, in most of the world, religion is really about more of what you do than what you believe. But in the U.S., we have this notion because of Christianity that it's just about creed.
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Chapter 2: How does the Hindu concept of vanaprastha relate to midlife transitions?
And so people who surrender do have less stress, less anxiety around those issues. Now, I want to be clear that surrendering doesn't mean like, well, that's it. I'm giving it up to God. I'm not doing anything, right? It's not that. It means doing the best you can, but at a certain point, realizing that you only have so much control. And once you've done the best you can,
then you put the rest in a higher power's hands. And so people call it surrender even in scientific literature, but I like to think about it as more of a collaboration between a junior and a senior partner. That is, we as the junior partner have a role that is to do the best we can, but we realize that it's not all resting on our shoulders all the time, nor do we have all that control.
And so at a certain point, that acceptance comes in offering it up. And to the extent that you offer it up and believe there's a force of some type, whoever you conceive of it out there,
Chapter 3: What rituals help us cope with loss and find meaning?
that has your best interests in mind, that can be a comforting thought. And people say, well, Dave, isn't that just the opiate of the masses? And I'm like, I don't think so. I mean, as a scientist, I can't tell you if God exists. It's not my job as a scientist. There is no experiment that can prove it one way or the other. So I'm not advocating that you should believe or you shouldn't.
But for those who do... there is that type of benefit of not having this sense that you have to be able to control everything.
I've had conversations with people where we've been talking about similar topics and people who would say I'm a non-believer. But I really wish I did believe because it's clear to me that there are some very real benefits in some way of both belief and also the practices in the community that often get wrapped around it, which we'll drop into shortly. So we exist in this time now where...
participation in organized religion is declining. The number of people who identify as spiritual but non-religious, the quote, nuns, is rising. And at the same time, many of the indicators of connection, happiness, or contentment, meaning that could be positively affected by participating, we're seeing less and less of this.
We're experiencing less connection, less meaningfulness, less of a sense of purpose. Mental health outcomes are in a disastrous state right now. Physical health outcomes are really being challenged today. So it's strange to me that, you know, on the one hand, we know that there are certain things that we can say yes to that would make a meaningful difference.
And yet, at scale, people seem to be moving away from that.
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Chapter 4: How can we build a spiritual life after leaving organized religion?
What's your sense of what's actually happening here? It's a complicated landscape.
And you're right, the data do show that people are leaving traditional faiths at an increasing rate. I think a lot of that is it comes from a dissatisfaction with the institutions themselves. Religious institutions are human-made organizations, and many of them have had moral failures. Many of them have built within them discriminatory practices based on gender or sex or other types of things.
And then there is this notion, too, that, you know, oh, religion is this superstition. that last part I don't believe. There are many, many scientists who are persons of faith. And yes, if you're going to be a true fundamentalist, like you're going to interpret everything in these texts as truth, which some people do, then it becomes to square with what we know to be true in the modern world.
But I know many scientists, you know, Francis Collins, who basically argues that we have, God gave us the power of the human mind so that we can learn about and celebrate God's creation. So I put that issue of kind of... fundamentalism to the side. But I think a lot of people are leaving institutions because they're not speaking to them in ways. It's interesting.
I've never gone to Burning Man, but I have friends who do. And one of them is a scientist. And at Burning Man, sure, for some people, it is a debaucherous party. But for other people, they're having these tremendous spiritual experiences there because it's this... place where your outcomes depend so much on the kindness of others. There's no money allowed, and so it's kind of the giving economy.
And so people are in this harsh environment, and it's also this liminal environment where you're not wearing your normal clothes, people take different names. And I've heard people say that I've never felt the presence of the spiritual so palpably as when I'm there and see the beauty of humanity. And I think people are looking for... more visceral experiences of goodness in the spiritual.
It's also why we're seeing the rise in psychedelic use. You know, psychedelics offer a quick and dirty way to get the brain in a state that would otherwise take years and years of deep meditative practice. And for those who do it and do it right, they feel their self slip away and this growing sense of connection and love.
And so I think people are leaving institutionalized churches and temples and synagogues because they feel they're kind of calcified and not speaking to them. But most of those people, if you look at data from Pew, they're not saying anything. I don't think there's anything spiritual in the world. It's not that I don't think God doesn't exist. I'm just leaving faith.
And they're looking for other ways to find that awe and wonder that spirituality often provides.
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Chapter 5: What role does community play in spiritual practices?
As you shared earlier, we can't actually measure the existence of a negative. And people will be following along this conversation saying, yes, I've tried all these things. It makes a difference. And I've also done this as part of a faith-based tradition.
And it's profoundly different when I participate in that context because I believe there's something bigger happening beyond the ritual or the practice itself.
No, I think that's right. And kind of my mission is to actually – show that there is a wisdom to a lot of these practices that we can study scientifically, but in no way to suggest that those higher elements aren't there. You know, the psychologist William James is the father of modern psychology.
he studied religious experience a lot and ultimately the people asked him, you know, do you believe there's something greater? He struggled with that. Then he came down to this notion of, of what he called an over-belief and the over-belief logical argument goes like this. If there's something that I can do for which there is no hardcore data, and I'm paraphrasing here, but
it feels true intuitively, and it leads to better positive outcomes, then it's logical to believe in it and to follow it. What's the harm? And so, you know, for me, that rings true. It is, we don't know if God exists. If God exists, I'm sure it's in a form that none of us can conceive of. And there's certainly no empirical test that we can apply to it.
If it's not causing harm, and I know religion, the institutions of religion have caused harm to people. I'm not in no way diminishing that. But in general, the data suggests that it's good.
If you're having those amazing transcendent experiences and you're feeling this connection to something else and it is enriching your life, I think the notion that you have to logically reject it because there's no empirical data to support it is misguided.
You know, I mean, even Richard Dawkins, the world's most famous atheist, will say if push comes to shove, he can't entirely 100% be sure that God doesn't exist. So why are we like having these debates? You know, why are we telling people God must exist or you're a fool if you think he does? You know, I think be open to what we don't understand.
And as long as it's rewarding and enriches your life, that's a good thing.
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