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Chapter 1: What feedback trends are people tired of?
What I've had it with is no matter what you do nowadays. Nowadays. Does that sound like a get off my lawn type situation? Yeah, but proceed. Yeah. Okay. Everybody wants your feedback. You send an email and they want your feedback. You go to the doctor. They want your feedback. You buy something. They want your feedback. Why do you want my feedback?
I don't want to give you my feedback because it's over. I don't want to think about it anymore. Why is everything requiring feedback? And then I'll tell you what I do because I'm a codependent. The other day, I was just getting ready to leave. I think you suck feedback. So I had it all typed up, all my grievances, all my complaints. And then I thought...
What if that person's a single mother and gets fired because I said this? I don't want to do that. So then I feel bad for what's probably AI emailing me this crap. So that's my own problem and my own issue. But just leave me alone.
Just leave me alone. This whole feedback loop is, I believe, kind of started with the millennials. And I love you millennials. I do. Great voting record. However... I think it started with them and they're the first like real generation of helicopter parents. And it's all this feelings and feedback. And what I feel when I get that is everything was perfect until you –
didn't let that conclusion be the end of it. I felt complete satisfaction until you had to follow up once I'd already closed this event or this purchase or this experience from my mind. And the worst of the worst is when it's something like getting your car repaired, which is a miserable experience. From top to bottom, you don't have a car.
Generally, everybody's cranky because it ends up costing more than you think it's going to be. And then to get an email a week after... How was your experience in getting your car repaired? And I want to say, regardless of anything you all did, it was a miserable fucking experience. I didn't have a car. It cost $1,500 more that I didn't anticipate. I hated it from top to bottom, left to right.
It's a stupid question. Don't ask me. Right.
Every single person hates this experience. You can't make it better. So why are we talking about it? It's like getting a pap smear. You know, let's not have a follow up interview about the pap smear. Right.
We don't want to.
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Chapter 2: How does vaping behavior reflect entitlement?
I saw her biceps the other day.
It brought to my attention that in the course of her workouts, whether it's biking or lifting weights, that pumps will occasionally take a little hit off the vape.
That's true.
At the gym, during the workout. And I don't know that this will come as a complete surprise, but vaping in a gym, a workout facility, is not allowed.
I didn't know that, but I do do that.
If the listener knows that or not. But when you're there to get healthier, when you're there to work out your body or your muscle or get cardio, they would simply ask that you not vape or share toxic fumes with other participants of the gym so that you can work out in a zone that's free of those toxins. And it's been brought to my attention that occasionally...
By trainers at the gym, right? We have the same trainer. But it was another trainer.
I don't want to out anybody.
No, I do do that. So it's not like it's a lie. Okay. So listen to this listener and Josh. The other day, my oldest son Dylan had like earwax buildup. And so Pumps and I go to the doctor's office and we are in the exam room.
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Chapter 3: What problems arise from vaping in public spaces?
And you're just, I mean, like four or five times in a row. No, I think.
In the medical procedure. A hundred percent. All of this is true. I'm not denying any of it. And I think he's right because you couldn't smoke cigarettes in all of these places. But vaping, you can, which has emboldened me. You can't. You say you can, but you can't. But people would know if you were smoking a cigarette on an airplane. Right. People would know if I lit up a cigarette.
Every now and then you do get a little whiff of some bubble fruit punch thing. One of the worst was we had Mayor David Holt on here in studio.
Yeah. in this tiny little recording studio. And he's so sweet. And right after we filmed, we all stood up. We're literally like he's in the middle and we're shaking his hands, giving him a hug. Pops takes this gigantic hit off the vape. And exhales it right into the mayor's face. And he kind of looks at me and I'm just like, oh, Jesus, fuck. Can we not wait till the mayor is outside?
And it smells like this fruity thing. And I'm just like, but I think it I think Josh is right. There is an entitlement with vapors that didn't exist with smokers. I agree.
A hundred percent.
Yeah.
The last thing I want to say about this is when I'm at the gym, one of my dear trainers comes up to me and he goes, now, what's that gal's name? Scoots? She does that podcast with your wife, Scoots or Stumps? I go, yeah, what about her? He's like, I'll see her over there on that bike. And she's just getting it like boom, boom, boom.
And then out of nowhere, she'll pop up a pink or purple little vape and take a big hit off that. And he said, I just about fell over laughing so hard.
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Chapter 4: How do graduation speeches impact students?
Yeah. I also, every single place you've named, I recently was at the ER with my girlfriend. I was vaping the entire time. We were there till 6am. Yeah. Airplanes. There's nowhere I won't. Right. Nowhere.
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Chapter 5: What are the challenges of direct communication for women?
And I'm sitting there thinking, I guarantee you, your therapist would not have advised that you give this speech at a graduation honoring 18-year-olds that... need to hear about ways to move forward in their life and how this institution helped you. We don't need to hear about how you saved a life. Oh, and then it goes into how he bumped into this guy later.
And the guy was like, you saved my life. And oh, it went on and on and on. That is absolutely. It put everybody in a bad mood. Everybody was moaning, groaning, sighing. It was the biggest example of grandstanding I'd ever seen in my life. Okay, let me ask you this.
As it went on, do you think that he started noticing that people were getting bored and tried to wrap it up quicker? No.
Absolutely not. Breathtaking lack of self-awareness in this. He was smiling throughout the entire thing. And I believe... felt like this was a story that actually helped people and didn't highlight what a braggadocious lack of humility this man had at the core of his character.
And I furthermore found it incredibly insulting to my personal intelligence that he wanted to get up and lecture people about kindness when he supports people like hypocrite Senator James Lankford and extreme Anti-woman, anti-family, hypocrite Congresswoman Stephanie Bice, who is in our district right here, who had the district relined because we had a Democrat named Kendra Horn.
So they ended it because this is Oklahoma City. They had it redrawn to absorb more rural areas where she could go in and Christian signal to these people. So the fact that he works with them and then wants to sit down at our secular school and try to lecture me and my kid about kindness, I found incredibly rich.
And the only thing kind that he could find support that he did was saving somebody's life in a war that the United States had never been in in the first place.
Yeah, it sounds miserable. It just sounds absolutely miserable. Graduation. He ruined my son's graduation. And here's the deal. I bet you he is running around telling everybody in his life, I did such a great job. They loved it so much. I inspired. These 18-year-olds walked away inspired by me.
And I support the troops, but I guarantee you the majority of the troops would never talk about that. My dad fought in Vietnam War. Will not talk about it. And I sure as hell wouldn't talk about it to a graduating class. And a bunch of crazy shit went on over there. And I just thought it was so gross. And I just wanted to share it. We all went through it.
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Chapter 6: Why are people switching to dumb phones?
You think. Because everybody was dying for it to be done by 730 to go to the game. Every other speaker, including the people within the graduating class that were 18, stood up and said... My dad told me to keep this short because there was a thunder game tonight. And then they would shorten their speech and it was cute and everybody clapped. Not this guy. He spoke longer than the valid Victorian.
Yes.
Three times as long. Here's the deal on that. So he is so narcissistic. Totally. That he thought what he had to say was more important than the collective want of everybody in that room. Angie, he saved somebody's life and his therapist encouraged him to tell people. Probably in two minutes or less, he could have told that story.
I just think that that's not the appropriate. That's not the forum. Right. This is not West Point. This is, you know, these are high schoolers. I just thought it was wildly inappropriate, braggadocious, nauseating.
Well, you know, it damaged me. If I would have been there, I would have been vaping. I would have been like, and blowing. And I would have supported it.
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Chapter 7: What can we learn from graduation experiences?
I might have even taken a hit too.
I mean, probably would have passed it down the line.
I would have been, I would have been like this. It was awful. It was the worst. And my child had a wonderful experience at that school. But that speaker will always be... There's just certain things you just can't get past. It's going to take me a long time to get past that grandstand. Just leaves a bad taste in your mouth at the very end. It really does.
Well, and then thank God we ran into Josh's... Ex-girlfriend lesbian right after that because that was a real shining light.
It changed the mood. It really did. Everybody would have bitched all the way home.
A lesbian can always cheer up the grandstanding of a gross, narcissistic alpha male.
Did they mention it? Have you talked to anybody since then that mentioned it?
Yes, I have. So it was just universal. It was universally the most hated speech at the graduation. And that's tough to do at a graduation.
It is so hard to do. I mean, that bar is low.
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