Why do parents turn their kids into influencers?
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What motivates parents to share their children's lives online?
When I was younger, maybe like 18 or 19, there was a stretch of time where I had this nightly routine. I'd get in bed, open YouTube, and I'd watch the latest vlog from Shay Carl and his family. Their channel was called, I'm cringing as I say this, Shaytards.
You are now watching the Shaytards Christmas. Sit back, relax, you don't want to miss this.
Shay Carl and his wife Colette filmed their daily life with their five kids. The vacations, the inside jokes, even the most mundane moments like running errands.
All right, we start today out in a pet store. We just got done doing CrossFit. Then we went and got a Jamba Juice.
There was something almost addictive about knowing these really intimate details about another family. It kind of felt like I was peering through a window into their lives. They were early family influencers before we really had a name for that. I don't really follow family influencers these days, but when they come across my feed, I have a really hard time looking away. The details they share have become even more intimate. Everything from potty training to puberty to their kids' mental health struggles. What used to feel like looking in from the outside now feels like you're sitting on their living room couch, watching things you're not sure you're supposed to see. I'm Rima Grace, and welcome to This is Uncomfortable, the weekly show from Marketplace about life and how money messes with it.
Lately, our team has been seeing a wave of stories about this corner of the internet. Young adults speaking out about what it was like to grow up on camera, being recognized by strangers or teased at school, having some of their most vulnerable moments like hospital stays or their meltdowns filmed and shared for profit. In a lot of the coverage, we kept seeing the same byline for Tessa Latifi. Family influencers have been her beat for years, and she just published a book on the subject called Like, Follow, Subscribe, Influencer Kids and the Cost of a Childhood Online. In this book, she talked to dozens of influencer families and their kids about what happens when documenting someone's childhood becomes a million-dollar business.
This week, I'm chatting with her about what she found, how family influencing can shape kids' lives, and what it reveals about motherhood and the financial pressures pushing parents to turn their lives into content. By the way, before we jump into this interview, we always love hearing from you all. So if anything comes up for you listening to this episode, let us know. You can call us at 347-RING-TIU. And be sure to listen to the very end. We're going to share a sweet call we got from a listener recently. All right, here's my conversation with Fortessa. Fortessa, welcome to the show.
Yeah, thank you for having me.
Okay, so I want to start by talking about how these family influencers operate. Like watching these videos, it kind of feels like a reality show that parents are producing and managing and filming. And it's a whole production.
Oh, yeah, it's an entire production. And I think that's something that really amazed me in my book is that in my reporting, I found that the top strata of these influencers really run their companies tightly. And it's really interesting because they have videographers, they have editors, they have Yeah, yeah. So it really is. You said it's like a reality show. And when you get that successful, it really is like a reality show because you have all these other people coming in to help. It's not just like mom and dad with a tripod anymore.
Well, why are you personally drawn to this world?
Oh my God. I think it really is the reality TV part of it because, so I don't know how old you are, but I am 32 and I grew up.
I'm a few years older, 35.
Okay. I grew up in the era of 16 and pregnant on MTV and Teen Mom, right?
Oh yeah. I watched like all of those seasons.
Same. I was so into it because I was 16 and I just couldn't believe it. And then in the last few years, those kids have started turning 14, 15, 16 themselves.
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Chapters
5 chapters
1
What motivates parents to share their children's lives online?
0:00–5:13
2
How do family influencers manage their content creation?
5:13–9:42
3
What financial opportunities exist for family influencers?
9:42–20:08
4
How do children of influencers feel about their online presence?
20:08–26:57
5
What ethical concerns arise from influencing children?
26:57–27:02