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Oi, Let's Talk

How to Actually Build a Relationship That Works

29 Apr 2026

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Chapter 1: What should you expect from the final episode of the relationship series?

0.031 - 23.001 Kate

do you think that men feel intimidated by ambitious women i'll say some men do if it's a first date yeah ben ben should pay do you think that relationship should feel easy or require constant work it shouldn't feel like hard work but you should want to be motivated to put effort into it do you think that people in relationships should be liking other people's photos on social media accounts uh

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30.727 - 33.792 Gemma

Welcome back to the Oh Let's Talk podcast. I'm Gemma. I'm Kate.

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33.993 - 35.175 Ben

I'm Ben. And I'm Amand.

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35.335 - 48.879 Gemma

A no BS space for the women who want more. This week, the final installment of our relationship series. We're coming in and finishing strong with the Q&A questions that you guys have asked us. We're going through all of the juicy stuff and we're excited to get into it.

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Chapter 2: Do men feel intimidated by ambitious women?

49.099 - 54.068 Kate

We're excited to hear the boys' perspective. I feel like you're nice and comfy on that couch.

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54.048 - 56.01 Aman

Yeah, what do you have cooking for us today?

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56.03 - 60.075 Kate

Lots. You're going to have to use your brains for this one. It's a little bit more hard-hitting.

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60.876 - 61.817 Aman

Are we ready? Let's go.

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62.017 - 65.021 Kate

Ben, you're staring at me like you're scared. Or maybe I should be scared of you.

Chapter 3: Who falls in love faster, men or women?

65.041 - 66.142 Kate

I don't know what's going on right now.

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66.282 - 70.707 Ben

The back of my shirt is see-through. Let's go.

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70.927 - 71.668 Gemma

Let's do it.

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71.688 - 79.217 Kate

You go first. Okay, question number one. Do you think that men feel intimidated by ambitious women? Be honest.

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79.818 - 80.038 Aman

No. No?

Chapter 4: Who should pay on a first date?

81.757 - 82.978 Aman

I'll say some men do.

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84.039 - 84.3 Kate

Why?

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84.32 - 103.059 Aman

Because there's a lot of men out there that can't see that women can be better than them. Like an ego thing? It's like an ego thing, yeah. As soon as they find out, oh, this woman makes, or this female makes a million dollars a year, they're like, you must be doing OnlyFans. So I think we live in this society where people always go to the worst and never expect the best.

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103.8 - 114.134 Aman

So I do think some guys are very intimidated if your partner makes more money than you or If there's females, they make more money than males because it's a man's world, isn't it?

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114.154 - 115.316 Kate

He says that in quotations.

Chapter 5: What do men wish women understood about their feelings?

115.577 - 117.059 Aman

Yeah, in quotations.

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117.92 - 130.14 Gemma

It is interesting because whenever there is like a successful female, people are always really quick to be like, oh, it's daddy's money or something like this and whatever it might be in some cases. But it's like, why always assume that? Why not assume that they just did that themselves?

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130.12 - 141.037 Kate

Yeah. I feel like it depends obviously on the person. Like, I feel like if you're a very secure man and you're very confident in yourself, I would agree with what you said, Ben, where you're like, well, no, why would they feel intimidated?

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141.297 - 150.992 Ben

Yeah. Maybe I just haven't thought about what other people, but I was just like, I'm surrounded by two very fierce women. So I was just doing some self-preservation just then.

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Chapter 6: Is love alone enough to sustain a relationship?

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151.653 - 161.753 Kate

But I feel like you're confident in yourself, right? Like you're self-assured, so why would you be? But I feel like sometimes men who are not so self-assured probably are.

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161.773 - 177.655 Ben

Yeah. I just see like you – Gemma always says Kate's a boss bitch and I find – like I agree. I think that you – I find it. Pitbull. Yeah.

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Chapter 7: Should relationships feel easy or require constant work?

177.815 - 183.484 Ben

I find it inspiring that people are striving for greatness.

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183.505 - 186.189 Kate

Did you guys hear that from Ben Thomas's mouth? That was so nice.

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186.67 - 190.155 Ben

I'm just really scared of her. Guys, no.

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190.375 - 196.425 Gemma

Question two. I'm going to get straight in and I'm going to ask Ahmad. Who falls in love faster, men or women?

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197.063 - 202.173 Aman

I think men, to be honest. As soon as you lock eyes with someone and you're like, wow, I love you.

Chapter 8: How important is communication in a relationship?

202.213 - 208.645 Kate

With someone or as soon as you lock eyes with Kate Morris? As soon as I lock eyes with Kate Morris. Yeah, perfect. I love you.

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208.765 - 216.92 Aman

I love that. I definitely think it can go both ways. Like sometimes a woman can fall in love with a man way quicker. It depends on his pheromone, you know?

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217.862 - 218.042 Unknown

Oh, okay.

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218.022 - 240.25 Ben

that's what they always say guys are typically more lustful yeah like they will see a woman and then think i am in love with that person because i'm physically attracted to them but i would say women are probably more socially intelligent and in tune with how they're feeling so i would say they would get to love quicker that's a good perspective yeah what do you reckon jim um

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242.373 - 258.028 Gemma

Yeah, I don't know. I really feel like it depends on the coupling, but I think like typically men would, I'm thinking like chasing or like really liking someone and they're kind of like, you know, not courting them. That sounds very old school, but you know what I mean? Like they're kind of like making an effort and then it grows over time.

258.048 - 268.298 Gemma

And I feel like with women, like you said, not that men aren't emotionally intelligent, but like we're thinking about different perspectives, not just that we're attracted to someone. Yeah. We probably think about that more and that might take more time.

268.598 - 269.379 Kate

Yeah, I agree.

269.519 - 270.22 Gemma

Yeah.

271.06 - 271.643 Kate

Third question.

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