Jay’s Must-Listens: 6 Love Experts Reveal How to Finally Attract the Right Relationship! Featuring Joe Dispenza & Lori Gottlieb
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What is the biggest dating mistake people make?
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Jay Shetty. Jay Shetty. The one, the only Jay Shetty. Hey, everyone. Thanks so much for tuning back into On Purpose. I appreciate it so much. Today, we're diving into one of the most important topics in all of our lives, love. And love isn't just about romantic relationships. It's about understanding ourselves, building meaningful connections, and growing into the best versions of who we are.
How can you tell if someone is wasting your time?
So in this special compilation episode, I've gathered wisdom from some of the best minds out there to help you navigate love with more clarity, confidence, and purpose. Number one, how do we know if someone is wasting our time? Whether it's a relationship that feels stagnant or a connection that just doesn't seem to be going anywhere, we need to recognize the signs. To break it down for us, we have Stefan Speaks, relationship coach, speaker, and bestselling author. He's helped millions navigate love with honesty and self-awareness. Let's hear what he has to say.
So to me, again, I think it always starts with self. And you have to be honest with yourself about why are you still here? Why are you holding on? What's really driving you? Because just use an example, let's say you're a woman and the only reason why you're holding on to this guy is because he's a nice guy. You don't feel like starting the process over with somebody else. So, even though you're not feeling it with him, you figure let me try to make it work. You're wasting your time. This is where you're setting yourself up for disaster every single time. So, if it's not born out of a true connection, love, a genuine desire, you really like this individual. Of course, there's always things we have to work through but is the foundation strong enough for us to say okay, we can make something special here.
And I think once we are honest with ourselves that kind of helps answer the question because sometimes we get so caught up trying to analyze the other individual that it's like we get in our heads and now we're missing the mark on what's really important here. And we can't always say for sure what's going on with them. I will say that in general if this person isn't willing to talk about things they're wasting your time. If they're not willing to address or correct things that have been talked about they're wasting your time. If you guys aren't on the same page about what you want and where you want to go in life wasting time. So, there are some things I think we can just look at and say listen, this is pointless here. But a lot of times and I have to say this especially for women Women's intuition is extremely powerful. I'm a huge believer in it. And I feel like women know very early this isn't it. But they rationalize reasons to convince themselves to give this man a chance.
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Chapters
7 chapters
1
What is the biggest dating mistake people make?
1:34–2:04
2
How can you tell if someone is wasting your time?
2:04–7:10
3
Is it real connection or just chemistry?
7:10–11:45
4
Am I behind if I'm single at 28?
11:45–16:28
5
Why is developing self-awareness difficult?
16:28–25:09
6
How do you attract the right relationship?
25:09–30:02
7
What is the key to manifesting love?
30:02–38:33
Speakers
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