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Chapter 1: What are the holiday vibes in this episode?
What's up, y'all? It's your girl, Lex P. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole. And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds. Ho, ho, ho. Ooh, a remix. We ain't got no guests today. We rocking down the hill in the sleigh. Oh.
Oh, okay.
That was cute. You know? That was cute, but yes, we're a drunk mind. Speak sober thoughts. All right, now. Let's get the party started. Let's get this party started, y'all. Merry Christmas. Merry Christmas. It is our annual Christmas episode. You know, everything is Christmas today. And I have to start with this. I did not have... I don't know. I ain't never seen that dress in my life.
Mine... Mine either, but mine is eating down. Look at the little Christmas ornaments on it. And a little side phone. It is. It's like... And then your booty peeking out. Your booty peeking out a little bit. One thing it's gonna do is that thing be poking. One thing... Javi does the fool with the A.I. She do. I got on my Santa belt. This is cute. It's cute. I love it. It's cute. Thanks, Javi. Um...
So, it's Christmas time. How are you feeling?
Oh, shit.
I forgot I wasn't supposed to turn to the back. Oh, that's all right. They're going to be like, uh-uh. The back of my head. Okay, Dre, let me ask you this. You're about to see all that. Are you in the Christmas spirit?
I am. You are?
Did you decorate your house? You got a tree? What's up?
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Chapter 2: Should you buy your situationship a Christmas gift?
Okay. So, yeah. I thought you've always had a wreath on your door. Huh? I thought you've always had a wreath on your door. Well, I put it up for Christmas, but I just left it up year-round because it was a neutral color. And that's what I'm saying. It's nice. Yeah, but it's a Christmas wreath. Oh, I didn't know that. But, yeah, so I put it back up on my new door.
I know that's right.
But I did not put my Christmas tree up this year, y'all. And I'm, like, very much a Christmas person.
Like, I always put my Christmas tree up. So I'm kind of sad about it. But I just don't see a point because I'm going home this year for Christmas and then I just got settled into my place and I'm literally leaving.
Yeah. Yeah, that makes sense. That makes sense.
I'm not even going to get to enjoy it because by the time I come back, It'll be like a few days before New Year's.
And then I'm one of them people, I like to have my tree down in January. You know, people be leaving theirs up for Valentine's Day. Well, you're supposed to leave it up for New Year's and then afterwards you're supposed to take everything down. Yeah, yeah. So you can have the lights, you know. And that's how it always was in my family growing up.
Like me and my mom and my dad would always take the tree down like after New Year's.
But some people be leaving theirs up in like February and they be making it like a Valentine's tree. That's tacky. That's tacky. I think so, too. It's so tacky. I like it's a little tacky. I like when people actually have those nice homes and decorate them for each holiday. But don't try to carry over your decorations for each holiday. I agree.
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Chapter 3: How to deal with unsolicited advice during the holidays?
And I used to watch her videos all the time. But I'm getting a little bougie, I fear. Mm-hmm. What do you mean? Because, yeah, it's giving. I'm not putting no Christmas tree up and taking it down no more. So, ever? I think I'm about to start hiring somebody to come do my Christmas tree. Mm. I'm not mad at that. Starting next year, yeah. I think I'm going to start hiring somebody.
Because I'm not going to lie, that be the thing, too. Like, last year, I will be. Sorry, Raven Elise. Oh, okay. Raven Elise is so good. I've heard of her. She's so good. I just had to get her name because I feel like our platform is a little too big to not be giving people props. Yeah, so Raven Elise, she has good DIY for the black girlies, everybody. But I love when the black women be doing that.
So that's, yeah. So, go ahead, go ahead.
Yeah, I love that, too. I love people who are, like, super creative. Yeah. Like, I think I'm a creative person, but I just don't be wanting to execute. I'd rather hire. Okay.
Like, I got the idea, but this is what I want you to do. Right, right. But, um, I just don't be having the patience. But like I was saying, I'm gonna keep it real with you. Last year, I probably kept my tree up till, like, the end of January. Okay. The end of January not bad. But that's a little... I thought you was about to say March. No, no, no, no. I...
Ain't no way it's springtime and the pollen is out and I still have my Christmas tree. You know, people be frosting their tree white. If your tree turn yellow from the pollen, bitch, take that shit down. Ain't no way the pollen and the bees is out and my tree still up. It is. It's no way. But people be doing that.
But see, to me, end of January, that's a little OD to have your Christmas tree still up. You don't think so?
Well, I do think so, but I also think it's easier when you have help. So, like, if you have, like, a roommate or you live with family or you live with your partner, y'all can help each other put up. It's a family event. Y'all can help each other put down and decorate. You know what I'm saying?
It's a family affair. It's like a family activity.
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Chapter 4: What happens when you sneak off from holiday parties?
You were?
I was like, I really want to get in the mood. But honestly, like, I haven't decided what I'm doing for Christmas. I'm either going to stay here with that man or I'm going to go home with my family.
I haven't decided yet.
We trying to make it a merry fucking Christmas, bitch. I hear you. You the one that said you was single on the show. Now, look, I called Harvey to take it out. Now we got to take it out again.
I don't know what I am, to tell the truth. That's why you shouldn't have said it. That's why it's funny. I said, I'm done. I'm through. I'm through. And then a vet seen me.
She said, oh, hey, girl. I said, uh. Mm-hmm. I already be knowing. That's why when you said that, I side-eyed you from the couch. Ooh. Girl, I ain't gonna play. But yeah, I feel you. Maybe you'll do it next year. You know what? I'll say this. I am, but I feel like, honestly, next year, I'm gonna be living, I am getting, I'm getting in my family bag next year.
I don't know who, if it's, you know, I'm not saying with who or whatever. I don't know. But I'm going to be in a home next year, too. Like, I think once I get in a home, I'll be more in the spirit. Because I definitely want to start hosting. Like, I want to be that person where everybody comes to Atlanta, come stay with me. Eh. And, you know, like, I want to do that.
And I feel like I'm so, I'm setting up my 2025 to be so good. Like, I'm going to put myself in the position to be hosting Christmas next year. For, like, my family, my friends, whoever wants to come. Because I do want to do that. Because my mom used to do that. So I really, really want to do that. So I'm like, okay, I'm going to be in a home next year, hopefully with my family.
And, you know, my other family can come in and we can have a time. Mm-hmm. But, you know, we gonna see how these holidays go. You know, the holidays be a tricky time. Then everybody be announcing, you be finding out. I didn't even know have these people had girlfriends, boyfriends. They posting in the matching pajamas. You gonna be posting in matching pajamas this year? Who, me? Yeah.
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Chapter 5: How do you handle family questions about your love life?
Possibly.
Okay.
But I'm not posting a man on my social media until I'm engaged. Okay. Even when I'm pregnant. If I get pregnant before I'm engaged, I'm going to cut his head off, the pictures.
Well, I didn't mean, like, you don't have to post it on socials, but a lot of times, like, people will take pictures and they don't post them. They'll post them, like, either in their close friends or they're just for them, for memories. Oh, are y'all gonna take pictures in pajamas?
Yeah, but I probably still won't post it on my close friends, because, I mean, it's still people in my close friends that I just feel like, you know... But it'll be for you. But you're gonna take... Y'all gonna take pictures or it'll just be for you and your memory? I don't know. The weird thing about close friends is I just be feeling like, are these really your close friends? Like, 60 people?
Because I got, like, 60 people.
in my close friends now I do know everybody and have met everybody in person but um I don't know you like that you might screenshot it trying to show your friend I used to have a lot and then once I started posting yeah you used to have a lot of people and then I literally it's like 30 people in there now it's like nobody in there but I never posted my close friends to be honest so I don't see myself doing it for Christmas yeah okay
That makes sense. That makes sense. So, speaking of... Since we on the topic of Christmas, can I tell y'all something I just found out? What? Can I... I need y'all to say we listen and we don't judge. We might. Judge. Come on! Depends on what it is. We got to get in the spirit. Say, we listen and we don't judge. Y'all say it. We listen and we don't judge. Thank you. Okay, so... Huh?
We a little bit... We do be judging a little bit. And I don't care because I still be talking that... Okay. Okay, so y'all know the song, I Saw Mama Kissing Santa Claus or whatever, right?
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Chapter 6: What Christmas gifts should you get for kids?
Growing up, I never liked that song because it made me feel uncomfortable because I was just like... The mother's a whore. How dare you? Like, what are you doing? I didn't know the purpose of the song was the daddy was dressing up as Santa. The tea was hot.
I did not know that. I said, now that's some good tea. I said, who wrote that? Because you created with it. You got in your Santa bag on that shit. Because me, I was mad.
I was like, what a whore. How did you know that word? What? Whore. When I was little? I didn't know that word then. But, like, growing up, I just did not like the song. Because I was like, in my head, I'm like, Santa is cheating on Mrs. Claus. And the mama's cheating on the daddy. Like, because I thought, I mean, obviously at this point, I thought Santa was real. Mm-hmm.
So as I got older, I just never paid attention to the song anymore. Yeah. And then I saw something on TikTok, like somebody had made a skit, like, you know how they be doing the skits and being funny. And, you know, they were like, they had their little kid in it and they were trying to be cute. And they're like, I saw mama kissing Santa Claus. And then turn around and it was his dad.
And he was like, oh my God. And I was like, this is so good. I said, this was really good. And that's what it meant the whole time. Yeah, I figured that. I didn't know that. Yeah, I mean, all of our daddies was Santa Claus. Well, I didn't have no daddy. That's why, God damn it. I didn't know.
And that I didn't have no daddy.
I had no daddy around when I was growing up. Only Santa's I knew was at the mall, hoe-ass nigga. I didn't know Santa was supposed to be your daddy, bitch. Girl, goodbye. I love you. Oh, my God. Oh, my goodness. See, this is why we need fathers at home. You didn't have an uncle or nothing? Hell no. So who did you think Santa was? The nigga in the mall. The man in the mall. The white man.
I really thought Santa was just like, I didn't know people's fathers dressed up as Santa. Mm. I really thought Santa was, like, coming in my house. I didn't know my mama was doing all that. Yeah. And then my mom never brought men around. Yeah. Like, never. So it was never like, oh, this mama friend. You never had no Uncle Leroy? No. No.
My mom dated one guy from, like, when I was, like, young, like, very young, like, pre-K until I was in, like, fourth or fifth grade. And, like, but when they broke up, he never, like, dressed up like Santa Claus or did anything. None of that.
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Chapter 7: How do you create meaningful Christmas experiences?
No.
Or you called him mister?
No, he had a nickname. I can't say his nickname. Of course, of course. And orange. You know orange. They're going to clock that T. But no, I used to call him by his nickname. I used to call him by his nickname. So it was... And my sister hated him. Kids be bad. Why she didn't like him? She used to lock him out the house. She used to like... Very tourist Cody.
You know what my sister made me do one time? So we used to have this playroom upstairs, right? So we had my room, my sister's room, then we had the guest room, and then we had a loft. It was our playroom. She made me sit there with her, right? And it had to step up and it was carpet. And we sat there and we put bobby pins in the floor one by one. And she was like, scream, scream.
And so she was like, scream and call his name. So I screamed and I called his name. He came running upstairs and he stepped on them bobby pins, bro. Barefoot? Barefoot. Oh, they was fucking with each other real tough while he was barefoot in the house. Oh, I mean, he used to be at the house. But my sister was, like, not playing. Like, she was so bad.
Like, when I think about that... Y'all did Mr. Leroy wrong. We did Mr. Leroy wrong. We did. Locked him out the house. Like, it was so much stuff we used to do. Y'all ain't right. And when I think about that as an adult now, like, if any guy I dated, like, their kids did that to me, I'm not coming back.
Imagine you just, like, running up the stairs because you think something wrong, and then you step on a whole bunch of bobby pins. I will come back. I will come back.
But I'm going to hide they toys.
Girl, bad kids are bad kids. Kids are bad. But I feel like some kids, you got to play they game. I'm not playing no game. I'm not doing that. You got to play they game with some of the kids. What you going to do back to a kid? I told you I'm going to hide the toys.
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Chapter 8: What are the best holiday cocktails to mix?
You can't do that with what? I was about to... Look. Oh, oh. Yeah, I mean... A terrorist.
Kids are funny, like, because the thing is... I think we talked about this on another episode. The thing about children, which I think is a good way to discipline children, in my opinion, you have to do back to them what they do to you. Maybe not the exact same thing, because who's going to put bobby pins down for a child to step on? But, like... You think that's funny?
Okay, I'm going to hide your toys.
It's like how I said when I was younger, my mom, I used to bite people. And so one day, my mom bit me. You did look like you used to bite people. No, I didn't. Because I did not have silver teeth. No, I didn't say you had silver teeth. It's not... Okay, so... And I think that's who looked like they used to bite me. No, no, no, but it's not about... It's just like you looked bad. I didn't look bad.
Yes, you did. You were a very cute child, but you looked bad. You know they have this thing right now where they call them low-income... How do you look bad? I'm telling you. So they have this thing on TikTok right now. Y'all, I be scrolling. They call it low-income eyes, right?
So they say it's like a certain look that certain white girls have, and they just look like they low-income from the trailer part. Mm-hmm. So what's the girl's name that played on that movie, Hustle & Flow? Yeah, she was on Orange is the New Black. Orange is the New Black. She's a great actress, A-list actress, but they say she got that. That's why she always plays them roles.
They say it's like it's just a certain type of look and you cannot escape it. Like that's just what you look like. I think certain kids, you just look at them and they look bad. Penny looks bad. He is bad. He looks bad. They just got a certain look in their eyes when they smile. It's something in them eyes. I don't know what it is. Well, I can confirm. I was very bad. Yeah.
But, you know, I don't know. I think some kids, that's how you discipline them, though. You got to do back to them the shit that they be doing. Like, yeah, because when my mama beat me, I stopped biting people.
I didn't think that shit was funny no more. So you want to put bobby pins down, I'm going to hide your toys. So let me ask you this, though. But do you believe in not giving a... If the kid has been bad all year, they doing bad in school, they acting up, cutting up, do you believe in not giving them Christmas presents? No. I would probably still give my kid at least one Christmas present.
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