How To Master Seduction, Understand Desire & Influence People | Robert Greene | FO565 Raj Shamani
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How can I learn to seduce anyone?
How to seduce anyone? People who are insecure have a very hard time seducing. So the first quality in all these form of seductions is to try and get rid of your insecurities. And the way you get rid of your insecurities is when you're with people, you're not thinking about yourself. You're focused on them, what they want, what they need, what their weaknesses are. You give that to people, the world will open up to you.
Tell me what is the most seductive quality somebody can possess?
You have to have some skills with words and language. Women are very susceptible to words. When they hear somebody talking well, who's funny, who's witty, who's good with compliments, etc. It has a very seductive power.
What is the difference between people who are remembered and people who get forgotten in a day?
The game is to make people think about you when you are not there in front of them. So if there's a woman and you're out on a date and she goes home and she's thinking about you, you've seduced her. So you need to create a little bit of mystery about yourself.
Robert Greene, the author of The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction and Mastery. And in this episode, we get inside his mind and uncover the rules of power, influence and human behavior that could make you the most powerful person in the room.
Human desire is very much viral. We want what other people have. You never had a girlfriend. Women really aren't interested in you. But if they see you surrounded by other people who are attractive, it makes them interested in you as well.
What are small behaviors that people are unconsciously doing and it's making them appear weak? People
who talk a lot, who are always blathering about what they think about their emotion, that makes you look weak. I noticed in meetings, the person who talks less but has a commanding presence to him or her is kind of emanates power. And then when they do say something, everyone's listening. What did they say? So talking all of the time makes you feel
weak. how do you become the most powerful person in the room well um how do you not feel powerless and insecure in front of a very powerful person
i tell you and i know this because i have to interact sometimes with powerful people
you said we all are attracted towards dark traits what are these dark traits I have a small favor to ask you.
What is the secret psychology behind truly magnetic people?
I need you to subscribe to our channel. The more subscribers we have, the better and bigger guests we can bring and provide you more value through these conversations. And the full audio experience of this show is also available on Spotify, where you can follow us and listen to the new episodes as well. Now let's get into the episode. One of the first things in my head comes is, how do I become the most attractive person in the room so that I start attracting opportunities, right? And I often ask myself the same question, which you answered in your books, but I wanna ask you again, how to seduce anyone?
Well, is it seducing a woman? Is it seducing an audience? Is it seducing the world? What kind of seduction are
you? Let's go one by one, all three.
Seduction is a psychological process. It's not a physical thing. It's a pure psychology. And one thing we can say for sure that people who are insecure do not have a very hard time seducing. It makes, if you've ever had this experience where you're around somebody who you can sense is very insecure, it makes you a bit insecure. It makes you feel odd, right? But if you're around somebody who's confident, who feels secure, who feels powerful and accomplish things, yes, you might be a little bit intimidated, but it also is very seductive to be around that person. You could kind of catch some of their confidence. So the first quality in all these form of seductions is to try and get rid of your insecurities.
And the way you get rid of your insecurities is When you're with people, you're not thinking about yourself, you're focused on them, right? You get outside of yourself. People think seduction is evil, the word is evil, but it's not. It's a form of therapy and it's actually a form of being social.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
How can I learn to seduce anyone?
0:00–2:32
2
What is the secret psychology behind truly magnetic people?
2:32–6:11
3
Why are we secretly drawn to dark, transgressive people?
6:11–9:52
4
How does the law of absence make you more powerful than constant presence?
9:52–14:17
5
What makes people become addicted to the person they love?
14:17–23:44
6
How can I become the most powerful person in the room?
23:44–38:49
7
Why do people feel something is missing and how can they fill that void?
38:49–51:14
8
What is the personal cost of becoming Robert Greene?
51:14–1:46:01
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