Raj Shamani's Figuring Out

Love Vs Arranged Marriage, Lust, Soulmate & Red Flags | Dr Madhumati Singh | FO354 Raj Shamani

13 May 2025

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Guest Suggestion Form: https://forms.gle/bnaeY3FpoFU9ZjA47Disclaimer: This video is intended solely for educational purposes and opinions shared by the guest are her personal views. We do not intent to defame or harm any person/ brand/ product/ country/ profession mentioned in the video. Our goal is to provide information to help audience make informed choices. The media used in this video are solely for informational purposes and belongs to their respective owners.Order 'Build, Don't Talk' (in English) here: https://amzn.eu/d/eCfijRuOrder 'Build Don't Talk' (in Hindi) here: https://amzn.eu/d/4wZISO0Follow Our Whatsapp Channel: https://www.whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaokF5x0bIdi3Qn9ef2JSubscribe To Our Other YouTube Channels:-https://www.youtube.com/@rajshamaniclipshttps://www.youtube.com/@RajShamani.Shorts📺 Watch Figuring Out episodes on YouTube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLE0Jo6NF_JYO5-phess8GKafKMtPv3tfZTimestamps:(00:00) – Intro(01:52) – Why is pre-marital counseling important?(05:32) – Questions to ask your partner before marriage(08:10) – Love vs Arranged Marriage(11:18) – Why men & women choose to marry(14:58) – Right reasons to get married(19:31) – 7 things to look for in a partner(32:51) – Practical exercise: Values chart(39:41) – Controlling partners & co-dependency(46:53) – What After Value Chart?(49:21) – Signs your marriage might not work(51:00) – Are soulmates real?(55:34) – Why chasing 'movie love' is harmful(57:05) – Psychology of falling in love(1:01:23) – Lust vs love vs attraction(1:03:33) – What is body count?(1:07:20) – Red flags before marriage(1:09:40) – Should you marry someone addicted to alcohol or smoking?(1:12:18) – Marrying someone with multiple partners? (1:14:35) – How to handle a narcissistic partner(1:23:09) – BTS(1:23:39) – OutroIn this episode, Dr. Maduumatii Siingh, a psychologist and Director of FairGaze with years of experience working with couples, brings a fresh and practical take on relationships, marriage, and what actually makes two people work. We discuss everything from why people get married to what most couples get wrong in the beginning.She breaks a lot of myths, like the idea that the first year of marriage is the honeymoon phase. We talk about love vs. practicality, what premarital counselling should actually cover, and how your values, family background, and even hobbies can shape a relationship. Whether arranged or love, what really matters is preparation, and she explains how. We also discuss red flags like co-dependency, the need to control, and dealing with financial or emotional baggage.Towards the end, we go into the complicated stuff like body count, lust vs love, falling for narcissists, and if you should marry someone with an addiction. It’s an honest, a little unconventional, but super important conversation. Subscribe for more real, unfiltered conversations!Follow Dr. Maduumatii Siingh Here:Website: https://madhumatisingh.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madhumati__1/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/madhumati.singhLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/madhumati-singh-8036b73b/To Know More,Follow Raj Shamani On ⤵︎Instagram @RajShamanihttps://www.instagram.com/rajshamani/Twitter @RajShamanihttps://twitter.com/rajshamaniFacebook @ShamaniRajhttps://www.facebook.com/shamanirajLinkedIn - Raj Shamanihttps://www.linkedin.com/in/rajshamani/• • •#Podcast #FiguringOut #RajShamani #india #marriage #rajshamanipodcast #love #relationship #madhumatisingh #doctor

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