A finger in the bum can make you cum
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What is the premise of the episode and why did listeners ask about finger‑in‑the‑bum?
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If you just click on this podcast and you have no idea what the hookup is, but you saw finger in the bum and cum in the title, and you just thought, oh my God, I need to find out what this is all about. Welcome. Welcome. The hookup. D. Salman's my name. I'm the host, and I've got the lovely producer with me, Pit Rasmussen. We're all about helping our listeners. It's all about helping you with your sex lives, your dating lives, your love lives, relationships. Relationships. Yeah, and we get so many amazing DMs from you at Triple J the Hookup. If you're not already following, go give us a follow. Uh but Yeah, we got a message from Emma in Perth and it was something that you and I have been wanting to talk about for ages, Pips.
So, you know, she reached out and she was like, There's something I've been noticing when I'm having sex with people and I'm not sure how I feel about it, but I just want to get your help.
I've noticed recently that there's a growing number of straight men that seem to be um requesting to have butt stuff done to them um on various different levels. And I don't know if this is just coincidental a few at a time or is this the new norm. I was so interested, I was very inquisitive of people that I felt comfortable in asking and I found that there seems to be like a real 50-50 split and that's based on like sort of males that want it, but also based on females that are prepared to do it. there's this real stigma of well if you like butt stuff then you're gay or you're bisexual. And it's certainly not the thought I've got, but it was more or less just a shock that I thought, wow, there's so many people in concession in in concession that are saying they want that.
And I found like people that have asked, they're sort of a bit like, well, I probably wouldn't just go and ask for it. Certainly not on a like a first instance, but they want it. But yeah, I think if you were more comfortable with somebody and you were both willing to do it or wanted it, sure, give it a go.
Yeah, this is definitely something that I have noticed, like when I've been casually sleeping with people or dating. Um, but it's more so I've noticed people have had to have a few drinks before it's like something that comes on the menu, if you know what I
mean? Yeah, definitely. I think my experience of it, like I have encountered this as well.
How did the audience poll reveal a 50‑50 split on interest in anal play?
And there was someone I was seeing who was really into it and would just never openly talk about it. Like he wouldn't be caught dead, you know?
That's the huge issue with like a finger up the bum is that a lot of cis straight guys still feel that there's a bit of a stigma, which we're gonna get into real soon. But Peep and I kind of concluded that we're like there's there's like three types of cis straight men in the world. Yeah. Uh there's the ones that are like, Oh my god, this is the best thing ever. I'm obsessed with it. Like, what's that to be embarrassed about? Yeah.
Yeah. And then there's those who know about it, but they are just way too embarrassed to ask for it, or they're just like a bit No homo about it because there's a lot of stigma and taboo about it.
And then there's people who just have no idea that this is like a whole pleasure center in itself. Yeah. They have no idea. So in this episode, we're gonna talk about that. We're gonna talk about the prostate, the male G spot is what some people will refer to. Pete won't let me say this, but I wanna call it the P spot.
No, it sounds wrong. She won't
let me say it. It
just sounds like the pee hole of the dick.
It's called a it's gonna be called a peace bot. It's a peace bot, it's a prostate, it's a spot, it's a pleasure center. Anyway, we're gonna get into what it is, why we should be talking about it, where to find it, and how to use it to give yourself an earth shattering orgasm. Yeah.
Now going back to what Emma had been talking about, she's not wrong. There's kind of like a big old 50-50 split because we put up a poll on our Instagram asking you, and forty-six percent of you said you love it.
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Chapters
7 chapters
1
What is the premise of the episode and why did listeners ask about finger‑in‑the‑bum?
0:02–2:26
2
How did the audience poll reveal a 50‑50 split on interest in anal play?
2:26–4:58
3
What are the three types of straight‑cis men the hosts identified regarding anal play?
4:58–9:06
4
Why do many people feel embarrassed or stigmatized about prostate stimulation?
9:06–13:41
5
What is the prostate (the “P‑spot”) and how does it contribute to orgasm?
13:41–16:50
6
How can you safely prepare for anal fingering – hygiene, lube, and positioning?
16:50–19:47
7
What language and conversation strategies help you ask a partner for anal play?
19:47–23:13